I've always wondered what it is like to

I've always wondered what it is like to have a man who is more concerned about your heart and soul than his ego and his peepee.

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  • hey I'm not saying I would be the best boyfriend, I would be a j*** about something to but I mean I know guys who tell their girlfriends to shut up because the girls upset.

  • I like getting into fights with my boyfriend, and it turns me on when he acts like an a******. He is a man, and he reminds all the time that I have a man and not some little p**** f** like all of you! The assholeness makes the s** great too!

  • yeah i'm ugly and so are my friends and we talk about if we have girl friends we would treat them like queens i mean i would make sure my girlfriend would be happy as i was

  • want the simple truth, what your looking for only exists in the ugliest of packages.

  • Okay I'm a woman and I have a few things to say, first of all, the guy that wrote that long piece is right, it is an equal thing. I hate to see women pull this its all men thing cause it does make us look like stupid victims, bunch of trailer trash, who the f*** cares about Shania Twain, she can't sing worth s*** anyway! When I was 9 my mom walked out the f***** door and left my dad to take care of everything, he worked his ass off! I went to college cause of him. Dude, I'm clear on what you're saying, but like that girl 2 above me said you're getting nowhere with these guys and girls all they want to hear about is Shania and Brittney!

  • Personality is the most important personal if i had a girlfriend i would treat them like a goddess and would want her to treat me good i would put my girlfriend before anything in my life, but she also has to do the samething

  • To the guy above me, I'm a woman and agree with you 100%, but you won't change people's minds on here, they don't want to listen, you tried to open some minds though, and thats whats important.

  • I'm the one who posted the really long comment, wow, so many bigots on this thing, it was nice to see a few people who agreed that it was equal though, and I'm really sorry for the rest of you. It must be so much easier to be eternal victims than take responsibility, and thats men AND women as well. To the people who keep screaming Shania Twain, the only way to judge a relationship is to be in it, not to watch you're damn stupid celebrity gossip s***. I really wish the best for all of you, women and men, but I was stupid to try to appeal to your reason, or believe that in some way you'd be open minded about the subject. Go back to your televisions and watch Spike or Oxygen and blame the other gender, and know nothing you do or any bad decision you make is ever EVER your fault.

  • If you hook up with a man OR woman that isn't right it says more about YOU than it does anything else. Probably that you haven't learned how to spot good qualities in a mate. That is a common problem. It doesn't make you bad. IT just means you need to learn.

  • I agree. Men want their mothers.

  • There are definitley more loser men- their behavior gets excused WAY MORE than a woman's, trust me.

  • how bout if the men start following through with being the men they pretend to be at the start of a realtionship and stop taking off on their kids the minute they find out they won't be the center of attention anymore.

  • men just want their mommies

  • MEN ARE A*******- and yes they DO stop trying unless and until they see a new girl to start trying with- because their d*** is all that counts. And Shania twain is an EXCELLENT EXAMPLE.

  • I would treat a girl with respect and show her she is the greatest thing in my life if i ever get a girlfriend and if they are good and you know don't cheat or anything like that

  • Second last commentor, speak for yourself. I'm a good woman who always thinks of others and women like you give women like me a bad name. Also, you dress like hobags, and that gives women like me a bad name too. So stop it.

  • and what is wrong about Mr. Pee Pee???

  • well said but women are still self centered tramps who believe the world revolves around them. I should know I'm awoman.

  • To the poster three comments above me, I was engaged to a woman showered her with love and affection, made sure if she had a bad day we'd talk about it, I NEVER got comfortable in my relationship, because you are right about that, its a sure sign you'll start to lose it, and then bam, she cheats on me. Now I'm sure you'll feel she was justified to do so, cause I did stupid things like helped her, shared my emotions with her, let her know I loved her. See you want to only blame men because you're just a cog in a machine, tv tells you men will cheat and you'll believe it. Women, men, anyone will cheat, and its not about one side being a******* or dogs or b****** or what the h*** ever you want to call it. People get unhappy, people feel the fires of love quick, then it sometimes fades. I truly sympathize with your misery, it hurts to be the one doing everything you can, then get shot down or ignored, but thats just a part of life. Men and women will always cheat. Men and women will always claim superiority over the other gender for whatever reason. That you could simply consider all men disgusting makes you no better than any man who is an a****** towards all women. kinda makes you disgusting really, but I'm not trying to judge(sorry I find bigotry disgusting in any of its forms.). In short men and women will always blame each other for everything, will always consider the other gender stupid, will always claim some kind of nonsense, so here's what I do, I have a great group of female friends, and a great group of male friends, and we just enjoy our time together, because trust me, at the end of your life you really won't end up giving a damn what the gender is of the group of people standing around you, you'll just be glad they love you and they are there. : )

  • lets not argue,we cant leave em n cant live without them.

  • And THAT is all the justification women need.

  • I AM with a nice guy, but I shower him with love and affection and do everything I believe it is a woman's duty to do, and all I ask is that he give me a little affection instead of just practical help, and he refuses to try and compromise. The truth is, once they get comfortable, even the "nice" guys turn into a******* in some form or another. For instance, when I've lost my temper and been irrational, I will recognize this and apologize. Will he ever do the same? No. Because men are ego-driven. Just look at Shania Twain. She married an ugly man for his heart and stayed married to him for 14 years. Then he leaves her for another woman. I hear she's in shock and devastated. "Nice" is just an act, give it a few years. Men are disgusting excuses for human beings.

  • The poster 3 comments above me is right on. Women are just as ignorant and stupid as men but they always have some reason to justify their ignorant behavior. Yeah some guys treat women bad but you have to ask yourself did the guy approach the woman treating her like crap and she said yes I'll be in a relationship with you. More than likely not. It more than likely happens like this the guy approaches the girl because she's fine she accepts because he's fine and they date and then after the honeymoon stage the girl shows she isn't the angel he thought and the guy shows he wasn't prince charming after all and the guy moves on while the girl post stupid confessions on a website about the guy.

  • yeah, I read the second poster too it din't sound like he dated her, it sound like he was complain about women who keep dating dumb guys and having kids with them.

  • The sixth poster didn't pay attention to what the second poster said apparently, he was complaining about his TAXES idiot! If you pay TAXES then some of your money goes to welfare, its just how it is, maybe instead of typing in all CAPS you should learn to read normal sized print. He didn't say he was paying support, he said his taxes went to her, taxes aren't a support check, they are two different things, feel better you illiterate idiot?

  • I love how women want to blame men for everything under the sun, but when they treat a man like crap, they're completely justified. Men and women are both a******* and usually are interested in only themselves, yes ladies you do the same s*** you complain about guys doing and you know it!

  • face it most men are a*******, sweetie

  • that's bullshit- I've dated less attractive guys and they f*** up every realtionship because they feel so bad about themselves they don't believe they deserve a good relationship- so that theory is full of f****** bullshit.

    A good relationship will take people who like themselves and KNOW what to llok for in a person of good standing. But there's so many screwed up people in this world it's hard to find anyone who insists that they aren't broken in someway. It's considered IN to have 'issues' all because they didn't have a happy childhood. People think relationships are just opportunities to take s*** out on each other- I say f*** being in a relationship.

  • what kind of dumbshit has five kids with a ho? If they ain't his, what the h*** was he attracted to in a woman with five kids? Oh wait- he must have needed a place to hide his van- in her cooch!!

  • I totally agree with the post above mine. And the second poster does need to shoot himself. What a r*****.

  • ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS BECAUSE WOMEN DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO FIND MEN THAT TREAT THEM WELL. BUT MOST MEN DON'T KNOW HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN WELL BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER TAUGHT TO- THERE ARE TOO MANY SINGLE PARENT HOUSEHOLDS BECAUSE MEN DON'T WANT TO HOLD UP THEIR END OF THE BARGAIN. THIS IS BOTH MEN AND WOMEN'S FAULT- AND TO THE SECOND POSTER, IF THAT'S WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU, APPARENTLY YOU YOURSELF ARE ATTRACTED TO LESS THAN HONORABLE WOMEN SO WHAT DOES IT SAY ABOUT YOU? AND YOU HAVE FIVE F****** KIDS WITH THIS HO SO THAT'S WHAT YOU GET FOR TRYING TO TURN A HO INTO A HOUSEWIFE. YOU WOULDN'T HAVE GONE FOR THAT UNLESS THAT WAS THE WAY YOU WERE RAISED- WE ONLY GRAVITATE TO WHAT WE KNOW F*******! SO GET OFF YOUR F****** HIGH HORSE- YOU GOT DID OVER BECAUSE YOU LOWERED YOUR STANDARDS TOO AND GOT BURNED SO WHY DON'T YOU STOP HITTING DOWN ON OTHERS AND GROW THE F*** UP YOUR F****** SELF. BY THE TONE OF YOUR RESPONSE YOU GOT BURNED MAJOR BIG TIME- WELL, WHO'S FAULT WAS THAT MR. HIGH AND MIGHTY?

    A WOMAN CAN CARE FOR HERSELF PLENTY AND STILL GET ROCKED BECAUSE A MAN WILL PRETEND AND PLAY WHAT HE HAS TO TO GET WHAT HE CAN GET. AND WHEN HE DOES HE QUITS TRYING BECAUSE HE FIGURES' WHAT'S THE POINT? I GOT MINE.'

    FINDING A GOOD DECENT MAN ANYMORE IS LIKE FINDING A GOOD USED CAR IN THE CAR LOT- IT TAKES TIME, MATURITY AND KNOWING THE 'QUICK FIXES' TO LOOK FOR THAT DISGUISE ALL THE S*** THAT'S BROKEN WITH THEM.

    DON'T GIVE UP- THE GEMS ARE OUT THERE. IT JUST TAKES DIGGING THROUGH A LOT OF THE CRAP AND THE ROUGH TO FIND THEM. AND I SHOULD KNOW- I'M A MAN.

  • I did what the last poster described almost seven years ago. Next month we'll celebrate our fifth wedding anniversary, and we have a beautiful daugther (2 and a half years old).
    He's very conciderate to my feelings and supports me in what I'm standing for. But he also makes room for his own 'heart and soul' als you call it. Which makes it fun to support him in what he's going for.
    I think if you care enough for your own heart and soul and go for your dreams, you'll find that kind of man. Attactive or not. I't not about the outside, you know. Cliche but true. (But someone who takes care of him or herself takes care of their boddies).

  • Much as I hate to agree with the last poster, he kind of makes sense. A lot of women want to go after the cool guy who treat them like crap, then blames all men for their choice. Try dating the less attractive nice guy for a change then you might be surprised, otherwise keep being treated like crap by the guys you choose, but stop blaming all men for it.

  • I've always wondered what its like to meet a woman who only dates guys who treat her like s***, then blames every guy for her poor choices, and makes my tax money go to her five kids, while she sits on her ass munching potato chips and collecting welfare checks. Of course she will blame men, and not her own dumb ass for constantly picking abusive, or cheating relationships, as opposed to taking responsibility. Grow up and take responsibility.

  • i would a girl should be treated like a queen, women are gods greatest gift to the world espeically beautiful women

  • do blive santaclause exisist?

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