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Friends with Benefits
This guy from my English class and I were talking through snapchat, and he told me he had feelings for me. Then we played the question game. He began asking me questions such as "would you kiss me?" and all that. I said no, because I have next to no experience with guys (I'm 16, he's 17). Then he asked if we could be friends with benefits. He said we would make out often and do sexual things together if I said yes. I rejected him and said I didn't want to be that with him. He proceeded to ask for questions on how far I'd go with him. First it was if I'd hold his hand, if I'd kiss him, if I'd give him a hickey, if I would let him grab my **, if I'd put my hand down his pants. Of course I had to ask "what would that do, if I out my hands down your pants?" and he replied "well you could feel my **, and then you could give me a ** moving it up and down" and then he asked if is let him put his hand down mine. Again I asked him what that would do and he said he would rub my ** and ** me. I said no I wouldn't do that, I'm not like that.
After it seemed like he gave up on the idea he asked me out to the movies and then asked what we would do at the movies. I said "watch the movie? what else is there to do haha?" He said that I could do all the things he mentioned, there. I said "isn't it public? everyone would see." and he said no they won't it'll be dark and we'll have our own row.
A little after, he asked to trade nudes. I said ** no. It would be awkward to see him the next day at school. He begged me for them saying he'd do "anything" to see me. He said he would send ** pics to me and told me he'd love to be my first for a lot of things. I am afraid he is going to try to get me alone and do things to me. Secretly I want to experience it and see how it would go or even be. I am not as innocent as I seem to him ;)
Good job saying no to all those questions. For him to ask those kinds of things off the bat shows what he wants. Someone to play with for a bit then get rid of.
Sounds like he likes you. And if he's really interested in taking you out, then you should go if you like him. As far as how much experience you have, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. We all have to start somewhere and there should be no rush to do anything. He may try something, but you can always say No. And he should respectfully stop. It doesn't matter what every other girl in your school has done or not done..Go at your own pace and don't let him (or any guy) force you to do anything that you are not comfortable with. If he doesn't respect that, then he is not the guy for you. Definitely do not send naked pics to him ..even on snapchat. Those thing live forever and they don't "disappear". And once they are out there, anyone can see them. And this guy may think it's super fun to pass your photo around school..so good for you for saying no.
** on my ** cuntislava