Friends with Benefits

This guy from my English class and I were talking through snapchat, and he told me he had feelings for me. Then we played the question game. He began asking me questions such as "would you kiss me?" and all that. I said no, because I have next to no experience with guys (I'm 16, he's 17). Then he asked if we could be friends with benefits. He said we would make out often and do sexual things together if I said yes. I rejected him and said I didn't want to be that with him. He proceeded to ask for questions on how far I'd go with him. First it was if I'd hold his hand, if I'd kiss him, if I'd give him a hickey, if I would let him grab my ass, if I'd put my hand down his pants. Of course I had to ask "what would that do, if I out my hands down your pants?" and he replied "well you could feel my d***, and then you could give me a handjob moving it up and down" and then he asked if is let him put his hand down mine. Again I asked him what that would do and he said he would rub my p**** and finger me. I said no I wouldn't do that, I'm not like that.

After it seemed like he gave up on the idea he asked me out to the movies and then asked what we would do at the movies. I said "watch the movie? what else is there to do haha?" He said that I could do all the things he mentioned, there. I said "isn't it public? everyone would see." and he said no they won't it'll be dark and we'll have our own row.

A little after, he asked to trade nudes. I said h*** no. It would be awkward to see him the next day at school. He begged me for them saying he'd do "anything" to see me. He said he would send d*** pics to me and told me he'd love to be my first for a lot of things. I am afraid he is going to try to get me alone and do things to me. Secretly I want to experience it and see how it would go or even be. I am not as innocent as I seem to him ;)

Report this

4 Comments

  • newest
  • oldest
  • most replies
  • most popular
  • Avoid Immoral Women
    1My son, pay attention to my wisdom;
    listen carefully to my wise counsel.
    2Then you will show discernment,
    and your lips will express what you’ve learned.
    3For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey,
    and her mouth is smoother than oil.
    4But in the end she is as bitter as poison,
    as dangerous as a double-edged sword.
    5Her feet go down to death;
    her steps lead straight to the grave.
    6For she cares nothing about the path to life.
    She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it.
    7So now, my sons, listen to me.
    Never stray from what I am about to say:
    8Stay away from her!
    Don’t go near the door of her house!
    9If you do, you will lose your honor
    and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved.
    10Strangers will consume your wealth,
    and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor.
    11In the end you will groan in anguish
    when disease consumes your body.
    12You will say, “How I hated discipline!
    If only I had not ignored all the warnings!
    13Oh, why didn’t I listen to my teachers?
    Why didn’t I pay attention to my instructors?
    14I have come to the brink of utter ruin,
    and now I must face public disgrace.”
    15Drink water from your own well—
    share your love only with your wife.
    16Why spill the water of your springs in the streets,
    having s** with just anyone?
    17You should reserve it for yourselves.
    Never share it with strangers.
    18Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you.
    Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
    19She is a loving deer, a graceful doe.
    Let her b****** satisfy you always.
    May you always be captivated by her love.
    20Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman,
    or fondle the b****** of a promiscuous woman?
    21For the lord sees clearly what a man does,
    examining every path he takes.
    22An evil man is held captive by his own sins;
    they are ropes that catch and hold him.
    23He will die for lack of self-control;
    he will be lost because of his great foolishness.

  • Good job saying no to all those questions. For him to ask those kinds of things off the bat shows what he wants. Someone to play with for a bit then get rid of.

  • Sounds like he likes you. And if he's really interested in taking you out, then you should go if you like him. As far as how much experience you have, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. We all have to start somewhere and there should be no rush to do anything. He may try something, but you can always say No. And he should respectfully stop. It doesn't matter what every other girl in your school has done or not done..Go at your own pace and don't let him (or any guy) force you to do anything that you are not comfortable with. If he doesn't respect that, then he is not the guy for you. Definitely do not send naked pics to him ..even on snapchat. Those thing live forever and they don't "disappear". And once they are out there, anyone can see them. And this guy may think it's super fun to pass your photo around school..so good for you for saying no.

  • Suck on my t****** cuntislava

Account Login
Signup
Is this post inapropriate?
Is this comment inapropriate?
Delete this post?