Troubled
I'm very confused right now. Recently found out an ex & my cousin are having a "thing". She's married - don't know if it's an open relationship. This ex used to manipulate me into doing things sexually, now he's doing the same to her. My cousin is about 1/2 my age & I HATE this guy for taking advantage of her. I don't understand why she would go to him in the first place - isn't there some sort of unspoken code that you don't do family member ex's? I could honestly care less who or what the ex does, but because he's messing w/my cousin it makes me ill. And he's using me as the manipulation...as in "your cousin didn't mind doing xyz so you shouldn't either" It just isn't ok on any level....
Taking advantage of her? how