I don't know what to do anymore

After 2 years of being in a relationship with someone, 3 years of having her in my life, she felt that not only does she no longer feel the spark anymore, and that she no longer feels the same for me, but also that she doesn't know what she wants anymore, and thought that we need a break for a while to clear her head. I agreed to it eventually considering that her feeling this way has been brought up a couple of times before with us trying something different and it never working. Thing is that she still wants to be friends, close friends, during this break. She tells me that I mean the world to her and that she really cares about me still, but right now its been pretty hard to believe her. I lover her very much and I have done so much to show her it, even now do I still do most of those things, but I know I can't love someone who doesn't feel the same way for me. It's been only four days, as stupid as it sounds, but it's been the longest four days I have had in very long time and I don't know if I can keep this going any longer. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic fighting for a lost cause. I find myself emotionally exhausted at the end of the day when I say goodbye to her because I know that I do everything for her and ultimately, it might not even matter. But the thing is that I know important I was in her life. She doesnt have that many friends and, really no one to talk to when she's sad, mad, happy, or in a need to just vent her emotions. She has friends, but she doesn't have anyone in her life and I'm the only one really there for her. I really need some help.

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  • The same thing happened to me within the same time frame. My girlfriend lsot interest in me and things went downhill fast. To avoid embarrassment I just quit calling her.

  • Ditch the pig b**** the using f****** c***

  • She can't have it both ways and you're giving her exactly that. She can't take a break and then continue to depend on you. That is not fair to you. You know what you want, or at least think you do. It is not your fault that she doesn't have any friends or others to talk to. That is all on her. Stop letting her string you along. It's not healthy for either of you. You should consider this break to be final and move on. It won't be easy, but you'll be in a better place when your heart catches up to your head. Ask yourself some questions..Can she commit after this break? How many more breaks will there be? How many can you tolerate? Are you missing your chance to find true happiness with someone else who isn't in need of a break? 2 years maybe just enough time to know if this relationship can truly go the distance. If she keeps asking for breaks, you have your answer. Stop all contact. It's going to hurt, but you'll be fine. She's clearly taking care of her needs. Do this for yourself.

  • Trust me. She just wants to move on. She is also afraid she wont find someone else. She wants the best of both worlds. To have someone who truly cares for her and have a guy seeep her off her feet and f u ck her good. I was in the same situation. Friends after we took a break. Means break up. I found a girl who truely loves me and got married. I still txt or call and wish her borthdays etc. However she doesnt even remember to do the same. so dont waste your time. Move on.

  • Dont be clingy,go after some other girl or other things and stop obsessing over this girl. She is scared u so into her u don't have a life. Sounds like she is your life and u bore her. it will be exciting for her if she had to chase after u. Go on with your life and when she ready,she will come after u. If not u still have a life to live n women all over the place, she is only one of 3,439 427 037+ women,just like you are one 3,487 869 561+ men in the world to choose from.If you still chasing after this undecided girl tomorrow,you missing out on more eligible beautiful girls who would pleasure you more and leave u energized at the end of the day or night.If she found another guy out there tonight,she won't even care saying hi to you-she would move on like u were never between her legs ever. Don't waste your time waiting around,move on.

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