Elsie mother in law update

Not quite two years ago, my then-22yo daughter married a man 3 years older than me. He and I didn't have much interaction prior to the wedding, but since then have gotten to know each other much better, and we have discovered that we have many of the same interests in literature, art, theater and ballet, and are both hockey fans, none of which my husband or daughter have any tolerance for. We've also both confessed an intense physical attraction for the other, though nothing sexual has happened. Yet. I think we both know that inevitably we will become ** partners, and that ultimately we will marry. There's just something in the way we look at each other that makes it crystal clear (at least to me) that we are headed toward that destination: we certainly look at each other with a hunger, and that is noticeable to those who care to look. I have even reached the point that it won't bother me to lose my husband or daughter, because I see this man -- technically my "son"-in-law, even though I'm younger than he is -- as my future. I can't wait for the ** to begin. Or for the wedding, which I am already planning. :)

Have you had other affairs? If so, were they with younger men, or more mature men, or a mix? How long did they last usually? Are any of them still going on?

I'm in my late 60s now, but throughout most of my 40s and 50s I had a super-heated affair with my son-in-law, and it was the best relationship of my life, sexual and romantic and otherwise. I had cheated on my husband multiple times before, but it was never anything meaningful. But with my son-in-law, I wasn't just cheating on my husband: I was cheating on my daughter, too, and it was powerful and wonderful. We would probably still be together, but we had to end it, for the most part (we still see each other 4-5 times a year, in deep secret), because he got a job transfer opportunity that he couldn't pass up. Or so he said. I still consider it possible that my daughter got wind of the intensity of his relationship with me and made him apply for that transfer. But in any event, I loved him and he loved me, and we were happy. Happier together than we were with our spouses. So, I tell you that simply to say that I think you should let go of your inhibitions and go get this young man of yours. Reading between the lines of your original posting, I truly believe this young man is already yours, so all you have to do is reach out and take him. If your daughter was doing her job, he wouldn't be making out with you in your kitchen. Begin to think of him as already belonging to you, and just take him. Just take him. Take him. Reach out and take him from your daughter. Do it today. There's no reason to wait. The sooner you begin, the longer the affair will last and the better everything will be for you. Good luck and happy ** to you.

Does your husband allow you to play? Or will this be strictly extracurricular? Either way, what you're doing is lovely and beautiful. And hot!!!! And I wish you good luck!

Once youve begun the affair you need to find out from him everything that your daughter wont do for him sexually and do all of that for him so that he has more reason to come to you than to her for all his sexual needs and fantasies and so you will always be ahead of her with him because you want to win always

Knowing not only that my son-in-law not only wants a woman my age but wants me MORE than her is the hottest feeling

I think this must be some of the hottest and sexiest kissing ever!!

^I completely agree^. OMG!

Sorry to say but your daughter clearly isn't taking care of this man at home, that means it's perfectly okay for you to take care of him at your home.

It all sounds lovely. I hope you get him, soon, and long.

Really hot. wish my son-in-law would do me.

I wish the same thing for mine. He is sooooo hung, I love him. I just wish he would stick that thing in my body and never take it out.

I have the same issue as these other ladies just above. I have something like ** and something like love for my son-in-law (married to my daughter for almost 1 year), and I ** swear to ** God......if that man made a move on me, I would gladly give up everything I have for just one night in his bed having him ** me like the **-crazed animal he is turning me into.

He'll never make a move. Even if the signals are strong, her husband is never going to think that his wife's mother would ACTUALLY have ** with him and even if he did, the chance of being wrong is too risky. Make the move clearly and directly and he won't say no.

I think that one day, after a few years of an affair with this young man, you and he will go to your daughter together, so that you can tell her, "I'm sorry to hurt you, honey, but I'm taking your husband." That will be a wonderful day for you and for him, and it will be incredibly **. The two of you will be a couple forever.

Next time he kisses you as he's leaving your house, hold the kiss; do not let him break it, keep your tongue in his mouth, and keep kissing and kissing and kissing. Then, just before you end the kiss, lean closer into him and press your hip against his fly. Naturally, he's going to be hard when you do that. Then, when you end the kiss, grab him by the belt, hard, look deeply into his eyes, and tell him, "I have a rule that you need to know about: if I make it hard.....it's mine!" Then start kissing him again, even deeper, and cup your other hand over the front of his pants and squeeze the meat. Then, when that kiss ends, look at him again -- with one hand still gripping his belt, and the other still squeezing his meat through his pants -- and say, "It's bedtime, darling", and lead him by the belt into your bedroom. Don't run, but don't dawdle: just get there. Once there, pull him down onto the bed, still dressed, and resume the kiss, horizontally. Don't take time to undress yourself or him before you get him onto your bed, because that will just provide opportunities and delays for him to back out: DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO THINK. He obviously wants you, and all you need to do is keep him on track to get you. If you're any good at dirty talk, use it once he's on your bed, telling him how bad you want him and how bad you know he wants you, and ramp it up into filthy talk. If you aren't any good at the talk, just keep your tongue in his mouth.....or elsewhere. At this point, you don't need any more instruction. You know what to do. So......just do it. :)

It sounds like he's just afraid, because of the circumstances and you being his wife's mother, and so he's waiting for you to make the first move. So make it! I think this will be an incredibly exciting relationship for both of you and there's no reason not to go for it! And have fun!

I agree with this^.......i am in love with my m-i-l and i want her so bad i can taste her. i fantasize about her constantly and my hunger for her has gotten to the point that any time i am inside my wife my eyes are closed and i am imagining it is her mom. i think her mom knows how i feel but she never acknowledges it and never seems open to it. but i swear to ** god if she ever opened that door a crack i would go rushing through it and never ever come out. i love her completely and i am more aroused by her than any woman ever in my life. but i cant make the move because of what the consequences could be and out of the fear of being wrong. so........for me......please, elsie......don't leave your son-in-law hanging in limbo. he wants you and hes afraid and i hope you will bring him in and calm his fears and fulfil his dreams and complete his life and love him. and i hope you will keep him permanently. its what i want from my m-i-l and what i will almost surely never have. it would be nice to know that someone else is having it. thank you!!!

Same here. I would do my wife's mom in a heartbeat, but I could never move on her first without a clear indication that she would respond favorably.

The word "I" is capitalized. Troll.

You're a disgrace - how could you betray your daughter.

She needs a divorce and you need a smackdown

^ ditto ^

Don't be confused.......he isn't confused....not at all. he wants you so bad he can taste it. just go for it. NOW! stop waiting. the only thing you have to decide before you make your play (and the one proposed by the first commenter is an excellent choice) is whether you want to allow him to continue his marriage with your daughter while the two of you are having an affair, or you want to ** him just one or two or three times and then it's over, or you want him all to yourself....permanently. you don't need to tell him which you want before you ** him, but you need to have that in your mind before you open your legs, so that everything you do from the point he enters your body is directed toward your ultimate goal. to be honest? i hope you decide to have the affair throughout his marriage, and then let him decide (eventually) that your daughter could never keep up with you, so HE decides to divorce her and come to you. that would be so **, don't you think? and if you are already married, and especially to your daughter's father, this is going to get reeeeeeally HOT. YOU GO GIRL!!

Next time I would be wearing a robe loosely tied that would "accidentally" fall open, then the ball is in his court. Just giggle and silly that silly robe always comes untied, but don't try to close it until you have your answer.