The One Who Got Away...

I'm in love with this guy I knew in high school. Ever since freshman year, I just couldn't get him out my head. We became friends in junior year and as I got to know him, I fell for him even more. I mean, he wasn't the most perfect guy and that's what I loved about him. He made me a better person. There was a point where he had feelings for me. That same day he found out that I had feelings for him...for a really, really, really long time. That day was the best day of my life. H***, it still is. I wanted to kiss him so bad but I didn't do it. A month after that, I found out that he was going out with his now ex-girlfriend. I was hurt. Especially on that day, since that was the day I was going to tell him that I loved him. It f***** me up. It was so bad that I went into a deep depression. I HAD to go to therapy. It was bad. But, I ended up forgiving him because I didn't want to go back to that dark place. I just didn't talk to him as much during senior year. After graduation, I never saw him again. I always hope to see him. I pass his house on the way to my school but I don't see him. Recently, he sent me a friend request on Facebook. I checked it out and i found out that he is single. Was it a sign? Is it meant for us to try to get together? I don't know. I NEED ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!

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  • Tell him the truth. Worked for me I have the same story although I'm a guy and it was a girl lol

  • First. Don't be an ass. Accept his friend request. Second of all, try and get to know him now. Maturity changes people. Your feelings can find clarity during this process. Thirdly, if you can't bear not to tell him how you feel any longer, be sure to preface the confession with the requirement that he promises to be civil to you. Once he seems braced to have a civil conversation about a difficult topic, explain in an authentic but intelligible way that you have a crush on him and your not sure if its for the best because your a g****** fruit cake, however you do trust him to be polite to you while you honestly deal with it.

  • He's the one with the answers. Friend and PM him.

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