I Will Never Forgive My Sister

My sister became my mother's legal guardian years ago. Mom was ill. And she was not taking care of herself. My sister did not want my family and I to visit Mom at her apartment. She wanted us to see mom and her at a restaurant. One day, my daughter called my sister. She asked her if I could talk to mom? My sister said, Mom does not like conversations. This is not true. She would not let me talk to her. I think my sister was mad about something. But I do not know what she was mad about. Mom died in 2009. I have not seen nor talked to my sister in years. She would not let my family and spend more time with my mother.

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  • WHEN YOU DO NOT FORGIVE SOMEONE, YOU ARE THE ONE HURTING AND NOT THE OTHER! I HAVE LONG LEARNT THIS FROM EXPERIENCE. And what's more? God will not forgive you if you do not forgive your neighbor who sinned against you. Perhaps you've prayed this prayer before:
    "forgive us our sins even as we forgive those who sins against us"

    For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. Matt. 6:14

  • Strange. What was your relationship like before your mom fell ill. I agree with the other comment. She either is trying to protect you from something or maybe she did something to your mom. There is elderabuse unfortunately. Hope it's not the latter. Here's another question..that was 4 years ago, do you want to repair your relationship with your sister? Or what was the catalyst for needing to post? Maybe at the end of the day, you just somehow work through the anger and forgive your sister and move from this. It's not helathy to hold on to it...

  • She didn't want you to know there was any money and she probably kept it all to herself!

  • Maybe she was protecting you from something

  • I don't blame you.

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