To male adolescent virgins...
As a female adolescent non-virgin who's had some experience, I'd like to consider myself at least decent at this s*** as a teenager. But my worst experience was not losing it, it was dealing with timid virgins. So here's some tips guys, if you're about to up ur game for the first time with a girl ;)
1. oh god. please don't ask me for permission.
My tongue is in your mouth correct? I'm reaching for your pants (if I'm naturally good or fairly experienced) correct? I'm wet af correct? So u can basically do whatever u want to me. as long as you're not abusing me or doing anything overboard or weird. Go down on me if you want to. Play with those t*** u fantasize. You don't need to keep it at first base for 10 f****** minutes. it'd be awkward for you to ask for permission during passionate stuff Which brings me to the second point.
2. PACE YOURSELF.
really, don't keep it at first base for 10 f****** minutes. I'm not going to baby you. I cant control where you touch me or when. If your partner is a virgin she won't even KNOW how to pace you cuz she doesn't know when things happen. It's way too awkward for me to tell you "ok jimmy u can touch my t*** now"
3. F****** look for signals already.
I unhooked my bra didn't I? or I was naked to start with. So start with those t***. I let you take off my bottoms didn't I? So eat that p**** already. Idk about virgins when I was a virgin I didn't think of these signals and s***. But now if the guys going too slow I'd just either undress him or tell him to undress me.
4. For gods sakes calm down. Score confidently. Being timid doesn't earn u p****. Being gentle does tho, especially if she's a v. No they don't co exist.