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I'll admit that I'm kind of talkative. But recently, I feel that I'm falling out of my social circle, if you're kind enough to help me access the situation.....please do.
So I have three regular friends at school. Not mentioning any names, I'll just name them as A, B and C.
I'll start out with A : He's a pretty carefree person. I talk to him a lot. Mostly about games, life and fun things. Recently I think he's annoyed by me. A close friend of mine asked him why. He replied and said that I was just annoying. Like what in the world did I do?
Now let's go on with B : B has mood swings, he says that he doesn't care for a minute, then asks you about it like 5 minutes later . He has a crush on a friend of mine. I talk to his crush a lot so may that be one of the reasons? He also told my friend that I was simply annoying.
C : C is a pretty close friend to A, C doesn't really go into these things such as hating or gossiping, I think he was influenced by A as I found out A and B were talking behind my back.
Sooo if any of you read that, I would like to say thanks, what could be the solution to this. Keeping quiet a little bit ?
Call them talk to them,let them know you know about it.give them a month to see if they would change if not leave them and go find some new friends
Your friends, if they can still be called that 3 years later, are not the issue. That was all unnecessary.
You know exactly what you need to do: STFU once in a while! Learn to LISTEN occasionally. Do not be threatened by silence between two people. Realize that other people have thoughts and feelings at least as worthy as yours.
Something I've always wondered: How do blabbermouths not pass out from lack of oxygen? Do you have blowholes hidden by your hair? Because the few I've known never visibly or audibly inhale, yet never pause for a nanosecond in their nonstop babble.
If nothing else checks you, remember this: People who call themselves "kind of talkative" always underestimate how chatty they really are. They go right past talkative and into obnoxious, ridiculous, and childish. They're not "sociable"-- they're narcissists. Is that how you want to be perceived? Well, is it?
Uhm, i have grown past that. Still thanks !
But you havent' grown past hanging around yrs after posting to watch 4 responses,not so grown after all
IOW, still a narcissist
And yeah, they can still be called my friends. Things got better apparently.
Pretty much everybody needs to learn how to listen. Social media helps attention wh0res get what they want but everyone is way too busy screaming 'look at meeeeeee'