It's complicated

How do I get my friends together?
I’m in love with my guy friend (I’m gay) and I know that he loves my other friend. It’s clear that there’s mutual attraction but she doesn’t seem to realise this. I know that if I can get them together he’ll be happy and that’s all that matters to me – I just want him to be happy. So how do I do it? It’s blatantly obvious that if they dated they’d be a hit – tbh I can see them getting married they’re just perfect for each other. But how do I get her to that stage, I’m trying to find out if she likes him but she’s so annoying and argumentative everytime I try we end up arguing literally the hour before I would ask which means that I can’t ask her because I’m raging at her.
Please help me – I just need him to be happy.

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  • He is a real friend and is looking for you:

    1Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus. 2But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”

    3Then Jesus told them this parable: 4“Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? 5And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders 6and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ 7I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.

  • That's really not helpful like at all

  • Oh, religitard there wasn't trying to be helpful. They just think chucking scripture around makes them look good (Pride being one of the Seven Deadly Sins, but whatever).

    This is a few years old now, so I hope you found a solution. It's really sweet that you're looking out for your friend-- a little tragic for you since you're in love with him. But genuine love is about making your loved one happy. You are -so- much farther ahead of the curve than bible boy up there! I hope that's of some solace to you.

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