Mom treats me like a teenager
I’m female, recently turned 20 years old, and a college student. My mom can’t seem to grasp that I’m an adult. Whenever I’m at her house, she has me do the chores. If I don’t, I’m not allowed to eat anything from their refrigerator. She wants me to come back home to live with her until I’m finished with college. But I know if I agree, she’ll never let met move out. She expects me to introduce my friends to her, to see if they are ‘good’ for me. With all of my male friends, she goes out of her way to humiliate me, whether they like me or not. What disturbs me most- I’ve found out yesterday that my phone is connected to hers, so she can read all of my text messages and the people I talk to. It’s apparently been like this since I was 13 years old.
She treats me like I’m a child, and it’s starting to p*** me off. I can’t confront her about it without her threatening to disown me. So all I can do is get a new phone, stay as far as I can away from her, and pray that she gets the hint.