I have a crush on my friend

I've been friends with this married and unhappy woman for 3 years. She wants out of her marrige but is unable to leave financially. I let her know I have serious interest in a relationship with her but she does not respond to it and I know why. It's leaving her home situation safety net. I'm sure she does not want to go from bad to the unknown and be in an even worse relationship. We've had close intimate talks, we even kissed. Being she knows I want her, I'm not saying anymore to her about it. I'm leaving it up to her to do as she wants. My problem with it is I'm divorced for 8 years, I want to be in a relationship and this woman is someone I'm very comfotable with, I have a lot of attraction to her and we both enjoy many of the same things. I know she likes me or she'd never have kissed me or had many personal intimate conversations with me. I'm not about to try and drag her out of her marriage, if it was that bad she'd have been out of it by now. I do not want an affair with her and she's not that kind of woman who would cheat. I know I'm in love with her and I think she senses that. She responds as a close friend but I want her love desperatly. This is nothing more than a frustrated rant about my fruitless lovelife of wanting someone desperatly and not being able to have her as my own.

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  • Stop living in your "hope" world, you let her know your intentions, now set a deadline and let her know that after that date you'll always be friends and you would still love a relationship if you're still available but you need and want a relationship, preferably with her.

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