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I am a 20 year old male and I recently got a new job in nov. There is this GORGEOUS GORGEOUS girl in my department sadly we don't speak that much. The reason why is my whole life I've been shy I'm not a Virgin I've had girlfriends like serious relationships I even used to live w my gf at one point. The problem is that I guess I think she's out of my league. I think she might have a different type I don't think she's looking for a guy like me but I definitely want her bad. The last couple girls I ** or dated have pursued me so I don't really now what I'm doing. We talked about our music interest and small stuff but no real serious convo. Whenever I plan to open my mouth to speak to her I puss out I guess I'm not confident. What in the world should I do I'm afraid to get rejected.
Since you work with her, you may want to check your company's employees handbook about the rules of dating others on the job. Because a lot of jobs discourage that. That's not to say, it doesn't happen. But it probably is in place because a lot of people can not always act maturely when the romance fizzles and they have to still work with one another. So being 20, are you able to handle seeing and interacting with her maturely if she does reject you? Or if you date her and it does fizzle? Those are most likely the questions to ask. You can always continue to chat with her and get to know her. Sure, she may have a different type. But don't lose your confidence or think you're out of her league. Keep on talking to her... The more you talk with her, the more you'll learn about her. If she has a bf or is married, she'll bring it up.