I hate being a parent

I'm a single mother and I hate it I miss my freedom I miss not having no worries . It has all been too men from me I hate the fact that I have to do it all by myself I hate that he has no worries and living life care free while I'm here taking care of our daughter I didn't make myself ... I hate that my mom loves to but in everything and how I raise my daughter she might as well be the mother because she makes me feel like I'm not good enough or careless as if I'm not there trying to do this on my own . I feel so alone and I hate it I always wonder why God put me in this situation and if it's even gona get better .. I'm only 22 but I'm tired .. Tired of over working and still not making enough tired of having to come home to a crying baby tired of my mom always making me feel like I'm a bad parent I'm just so tired ..

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  • I know exactly how you feel I'm in the same exact situation but I've got twins. The father of my kids barely help financially. I'm currently on maternity leave and trying to return back to work as I am no longer getting paid. I told him that I can work around him considering that he can't help me pay for child care. I offered him the option off me working weekends so he could look after the kids. He said no he has a life I'm their mother so he Dnt see why he has to give up his weekend. So now everything regarding the children are all on me. Just have faith they'll grow and we'll get through it.

  • Too many young girls don't realize how expensive raising kids are - and too many fathers don't give a s*** anymore. Your mother is probably resentful. Your best bet is go to school to at least get s good paying job, and things will get better. Whatever you do - please use birth control in the future because no one can afford daycare for 2 kids nowadays

  • What if you used two methods of birth control and you took them correctly but that didn't work are you suggesting that I should of had an abortion?. So you can't really tell
    Someone to use birth control when you Dnt know the story behind it alk. And yes you can afford childcare as long as the other working parent decide to stop being so selfish and help. A

  • I am certainly NOT suggesting she should have had an abortion. I used to earn 65k annually 13 years ago and paying for childcare was expensive then. I hear from other moms it ranges in the 400.00 a week now. Even if a woman gets welfare there is a one year cap on childcare now. To answer the birth control ?, there are multiple options nowadays; hopefully one will work for her. Education is key to surviving or it's a struggle

  • What if you used two methods of birth control and you took them correctly but that didn't work are you suggesting that I should of had an abortion?. And yes you can afford childcare as long as the other working parent decide to stop being so selfish and help.

  • What if you used two methods of birth control and you took them correctly but that didn't work are you suggesting that I should of had an abortion?

  • What if you used two methods of birth control and that didn't work are you suggesting that I should of had an abortion?

  • Good luck your going to need it

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