Why am I still in this relationship

I can't stand the guy I'm with. I'm not attracted to him, and his personality gets on my nerves. I've been with him for 2 and 1/2 years and I can't break up with him because I don't want to hurt his feelings. Honestly. I'm only with him because I'm in love with his father. They live in a different state and the only way I can see his father is if I stay with him. Why on earth am I in this relationship.

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  • We may have been born yesterday however it wasn't late yesterday.. Look, all that we observe here is second guessing.. Nothing is wrong here.. The father excuse is lame especially being in another state.. You're obviously attracted to more than a couple of variables regarding this man & we all have some personality conflicts with our mates.. Many times when a woman doesn't mention it publicly, she is addicted to the excellent package of genitalia her man has & adores the hammering & copious doses of s**** she receives from him.. So much that he controls her with it.. You may consider it to be a force of nature. Your man can & does subdue you under the spell his P**** may have over you.. This dynamic is not uncommon.. It indicates the profound control that endowed men have over mostly more than one woman at a time.. Rather than loving this man's father, you love this man & are addicted to the overwhelming emotional dynamics you experience when he F**** you.. Don't kid yourself ; you may proclaim that you want this to cease due to your lack of any control over it however you need to acknowledge how fortunate you are & that this what nature intended i.e. men have a responsibility to control women.. Enjoy it rather than dispute it.. You know you don't want it to end..

  • OMG! Another delusional woman l****** after forbidden fruit! That's why you're still in this relationship.

  • You're wasting your time with both of them. Walk away today and find yourself someone whom you can stand. Be well now.

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