I am a hypocrite

I am extremely possessive over my boyfriend.
He has girls all over his Facebook page, and I tell him whenever I get jealous, which we usually laugh over. Most of his friends are girls though and it bothers me. His main interactions where he feels as though he can connect with people are women.

I'm the same exact way with men. Most of my friends are men. I've barely spoken to any of them for months now because I don't want to be a hypocrite, but I still want to because they;re my friends and they give good advice... Does that make me a bad person?

I don't know how to get over the possessive, jealousy issue.

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  • You will push him to cheat if ur jealous try self improvement over anything if you put effort in it pays off

  • You're just jealous cause you want f*** other people too it's normal

  • You're not a bad person but you do not seem to trust your mate. Have you ever considered therapy in order to improve your self-confidence and sense of security? It would likely serve you well. Take care now.

  • You have to just trust your boyfriend as he trusts you. The insecurity is something you have to deal with and work on on your own. But you should know he's with you. If you become too possessive or jealous, or always nagging and not believing he's being faithful, you will most likely push him away. So, If you want him to give up all of his female friends, then say good bye to all of your male friends.

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