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What can I do?
My boyfriend has heart problems, which his lifestyle isn't helping.
He drinks, smokes, has a ** diet, does drugs.
I need him to stop- to at least try and help himself.
But I can't force him to, we don't work like that and I'd hate forcing him into something.
It doesn't help that I have no right to get him to stop this lifestyle- mine;s the same, if not worse.
But he could die.
And I have no idea what to do.
A ** diet, thats disgusting if he eats ** and you kiss him!
I THINK IT'S HOT WOOPAH!
You DO have a right to pressure him to change. If he expects you to be part of his life, and wants you to forsake other guys for him, then he has a responsibility to be around for you, too. And from the sound of it his life expectancy is gonna be about nil.
^ AGREED! When he sees that it means that much to you, he might actually start thinking.
Well, leave his sorry ** then
OP: But he'll hate me for it, and won't do it anyway. The only way he'll stop is if he sees sense, but no-one but himself can make him do that.
Remember as a child when your parents 'forced' you to do things for your own good? That is what love is. Love is not being silent and is not selfish.
Love is sausage and mash.
YOU'RE A ** SMOKER
AND THE ONLY THING THAT GOT MASHED WAS YOUR SOFT FAT ** AS BUBBA WAS RAMMING HIS ** IN IT!