Heart or Family?

F25,i was in a relationship for 5yrs. we both loved each other and planned to get married. but my family didn't agree as he was not much educated, earn less at that time. he also talked to my parents. so under family pressure, i decided to move on with my family. he was broken and even i was also broken and after 1yr he got married to some other girl. he told about me to that girl before marriage but she was ready to marry. after his marriage also, he used to text me and missed me. he was not happy and avoided physical relationship with his wife. soon the girl and her parents started taunting him on his manhood as they wanted a child. now he's having a 3months old baby girl. but they both are not happy. his wife has filed a false dowry case against him and demanding money, actually the main reason their physical relationship. he never does willingly with her. now he earns well, he wants to divorce her as he never loved her and wants me to come in his life.. i also still love him and wants to stay with him. as marriage is nothing without love. we both love each other today also. i don't have any problem with his child as it will be a good deed and i m ready to take care of her. people adopt children likewise there's nothing wrong in this. my heart wants him but i m afraid of my family. i don't know how my father will react.i regret my decision of leaving him earlier but now marrying him makes me tensed about my family. they will never accept.. what should i do pls help.

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  • Obviously some cultural stuff here.

    My wife lived at home until we were married. Her parents were very very protective and strict. But no fear like what happens in some muslim countries.

  • F*** your family and be happy. Forget about what anyone else thinks. Dnt lose out on the man you love. Love is read in this generation go for it.

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