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I Want to Tell my Big Brother I Used to Cut, but Don't Know How
I used to cut, and i want my brother to know. I am thirteen almost fourteen, and he is twenty almost twenty-one. I love him more than anything and want him to know, but how do I tell him something like that? I hope his views don't change about his little sister. I don't know what to do.
Do what every cutter does-- "accidentally" let him see your scars. Do this enough times and he might actually make a comment. At which time you Burst Into Tears (a standard feature in the Manipulative Girl type) and oh so dramatically shriek about all your paaaaaaain. Be sure to go fetal and accuse him of hating you now before he can say a single word. Maybe "lapse back into cutting" like you know you want to. Whatever you do, use it as an excuse to have an attention-grabbing meltdown! Yay!
I love you. Wish there were more people on this site like you, taking down the idiots who need and/or deserve it!!
Tell him. He'll still love you. He will probably try to help you.
He couldnt giv a ** if u cut r not nobody does but if u tel him u giv grt head now hel b interested
His views will change about you. He will probably be very concerned and telling him may not benefit you in the long run. Ever think of going to a therapist? Older siblings are sometimes over protective to younger ones, and he may be more so if you admit to this. I understand cutting because my ex gf used to do it. It's not new to me. I would see a therapist and work through my feelings with her/him. Remember that once you tell somebody something you can't take it back.