Upset at Friend who is Staying with Me
A friend of mine from high school (she's 38) recently moved back into town, and I have let her stay with me until she gets a job and her own place. We've been friends for years, though we haven't seen a lot of each other until recently.
The problem that I'm having with my friend is that she dresses inappropriately around the house. I have a husband and a 18 year old son as well, so this bothers me. She wears shorts that nearly go up her rear, and tank tops that show her bra straps. She also likes to sunbathe out on the deck in a bikini, and doesn't have a problem if my son is around when doing so. In fact, they like to sit out together and surf facebook and stuff.
The last straw was this weekend when I was doing laundry and noticed some white stains on some of her underwear in the hamper. Someone in the house is relieving himself on her clothes. I talked to my husband about this, but he told me to relax and chill out, that it is no big deal.
I might be irrational, but I'm livid that my friend is dressing in a way that makes me think that the guys in the house are getting randy. I'm about ready to throw her ass out, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. I'm just p*****, I guess.