Concerned about Wife's Night Out
Last week my wife went out drinking with some friends from work. It was a "girl's night out" type of thing, for a friend who was recently engaged. We've been married for nearly 20 years, and I have a high level of trust with my wife. I told her to have a good time and to call me to pick her up, if she needed.
Well, she never called me for a ride, but did come home later than I expected (2 AM) after taking a cab. She was totally wasted. I had to basically peel her out of the back seat and carry her into the house. Her hair was a bit matted, her blouse was somewhat wrinkled, and she had her high heels off, because she was too drunk to walk in them.
I got her upstairs to the bedroom and, as she mumbled incoherently, started to take off her skirt and other clothing items before going to bed. As I undressed her, what surprised me was that for some reason she had already previously taken off her panties and put them in her purse. They were also wet in the crotch, and it didn't smell like urine, like she had p***** herself or anything. I'm not talking damp, either, but wet.
I asked her the next morning why she had put her panties in her purse before coming home, and she said that she had no idea--that she had been too drunk. I'm not too sure if this answer works for me. I actually put the panties in a bag, and I'm thinking about sending them to a lab for DNA testing. She thinks this is completely irrational and is upset about it. I'd just like to get a few answers that she is either unwilling or unable to provide, and feel that my desire to get the panties tested is justified. It's become a sticky point in our relationship (no pun intended).