I hate my oldest step daughter
I met my husband 2 years ago and it took us a few months to introduce each other to our kids. He had two beautiful little girls (5 and 3) and I had a son who just turned 1, now 7,5 and 3.
After a year we got an apartment and visitation with the girls was every weekend seeing how we all live in the same small town and his ex wife and I got along just fine it would sometimes be more visits and longer ones.
I slowly started to notice his oldest daughter would tease the two younger kids just to make them cry, she would "accidentally" spill her food or hide it because I refuse to give her what she wants like mommy and daddy did. And when she found out I wouldn't budge to her demands things got kicked up a level.
I've seen "f** u b***" written in my note books, she lies,steals, breaks,spills, and even purposely wipes her nose on the towels that we all use because I told her to start putting her snotty tissues IN the trash so the now crawling baby doesn't eat them. The worst part isn't even shared yet! I inform both of her parents and they do nothing. Her mom lets her get away with everything and her dad thinks it's my son from my previous relationship just because he's 3 and can't defend himself.
I wanted to love her and her sister and now i want to leave her at her moms and just take her sister. If i could never hear that annoying high pitched hyena laugh or nasty snotty clogged nosed brat again I would be perfectly happy with it.