I hate my step-daughter

I met my step-daughter (R) when she was about 2 years old. My boyfriend (now husband) Derek, spoiled her. They did have a rough time of it before I met them. And R was used to her daddy always being within arms reach. She was a terror for quite awhile, but I was understanding and helped Derek out with R whenever I could. Eventually we all moved in together and R had to learn to sleep in her own room, she was about 3 at this point. She saw this as me taking her place with her daddy. Which wasn't the case at all, I treated her like my own and I thought I loved her. She was so sweet and playful when Derek was home but when he was out to work R became the worst. I started teaching her her numbers and alphabet and she would catch on fast but when asked to show daddy what she learned she would break down and cry and tell him I was mean to her. Things would calm down after awhile and I thought we were passed the step-mama-drama. I actually started liking her again, because she is cute and funny when she wants to be.
R is 5 now and about to start kindergarten which should be exciting, but I found out that she has been secretly telling members of our family that I choke her! I have never laid a hand on her, aside from the occasional butt swat for bad behavior. She told my own mother that I choked her, that's how I found out. How can I send this child I am raising as my own to school when she accuses me of this horrible abuse?!
I just dont get it. I am the only mother she has known, she calls me Mommy and shows me love. Is it all a ploy? Is she trying to ruin me?
I want to love her.. but I think deep down I hate her for this.
I hate that if she continues with these lies that I will lose my husband, I hate the control she has over my family.
I broke the other day. I asked R if she had brushed her hair and I got a snotty look from her as she just walked passed me. I grabbed her arm and crouched down to her level making her look me in the eyes. I told her that sometimes I hate her. I told her that I think she is an awful little child who deserves awful things. She started crying but it didn't faze me. I told her that while daddy will always love her, that I will not. And that she will not be allowed to lie anymore or else I will make her life miserable. Now she's only 5 so I don't know how much she actually took in. But I know she was shocked to hear me talk like that. After the day calmed down she went back to being a brat until Derek came home. This was about 2 days ago.
I don't feel bad about what I said to R. But I feel bad for not feel bad.

Jul 13, 2018

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  • Wow yeah great job on blasting a 5 year old, how about be an adult and take her to counseling to help her. Dumbass

  • You there..

  • How is your daughter doing?

  • Dont know what happend there. My princess done the same too my friends wife as she did with my sister. Spit at her and slapped struck out at her..thanks for responding

  • Take her clothes off and put them away in a safe place so she stays nude for the rest of night.

  • I cant beleave she is still awake. I told my friends wife she could off spanked her for what she did. She is throwing thing around even now in the room were staying in..

  • Strip her now.

  • I will do and her behaviour is unacceptable. Im going too bed soon myself. She is fighting sleep at this stage..

  • She is rebelling sleep.

  • I know and she has too be tired. My poor princess..

  • Get her nude and rub lotion over her whole body and between her legs.

  • Sorry meant too say. I will put lotion on her..

  • She could barely keep her eyes open as i stripped her. I will put

  • Remember between her legs.

  • ? Dont know if i could control myself..

  • Just do it she might get a o*****.

  • Im ready too c** and im just rubbing lotion on my princess. She is sleeping like a log..

  • Well let it spurt on her to make you feel better.

  • Im going too h***. I came twice there and shot wodd on her bare p**** and then slight bumps on her other wise flat chest and nipples..

  • Good for you it must be a awesome sight.

  • It is and she looks hot and has know clue thanks..

  • Let her sleep like that.

  • Ok and how do i explain it in the morning. She may think its cream off some sort..0+

  • Yes that is cream that you used and maybe she might m********* when she wakes up.

  • I would like that and thats so hot off a thought..

  • Are you going to sleep in same bed?

  • Yes its a double bed and thanks again..

  • Have a good night sleep.

  • So are you there..

  • What did daughter think of her cream coating?

  • She just asked what it was. I told her it was diffrent cream. She is allready being a handfull. My friends wife made breakfast and she refused too eat anything. Im not letting her off the hook as she has allready not got a great appetite..

  • Is she still nude she should be.

  • She has her pj shorts and pj top on. She would die if i stripped her completly in front off my friends..

  • She eats or get stripped.

  • She is in corner sit on wooden chair with pj shorts at her ankles. She will ger corner time and one more chance too eat up..

  • Take the shorts away.

  • For real..

  • Do it now.

  • How you getting on. My princess and i are heading out with my friends for bite too eat soon..

  • Hope you have a good time.

  • Are you there..

  • I just got back home.

  • How did you get on? My little princess ran her mouth off in restaraunt and was a genuiine brat..

  • Did you spank her there?

  • It was a very embarassing situation and restaraunt was quite busy. I smacked her thighs a copil off times and eventualy lifted her up and over my knee..

  • Are you home now?

  • Yes and she broke some more stuff here and screaming again..

  • Why don't you get nude and approach her and watch her reaction?

  • ? Reaction is rite and not sure how she would take that. Though she is in my bed..

  • Just walk in nude and watch her reaction.

  • Will do it now..

  • Her face went bright red..

  • Tell her that both of you will go nude around the house from now on.Sleep nude watch TV and so on.

  • She is gone very quite. I just told her daddy is too warm princess amd my c*** is so hard under sheet..

  • Turn over and cuddle with her Face to face.

  • You have know idea how hard i am..

  • Let her touch it.

  • I just placed my hand on her little butt..

  • Nice and warm.

  • Ues but could be from her spankings..

  • Rub her gently and between her butt cheeks. Where are her hands?

  • One is on my arm as im massaging her tiny bubble butt and other is between us on the matress..

  • Is her hand near your p****?

  • Kind off..

  • How was your night? Maybe I should say morning?

  • Thanks are you there..

  • Great morning to have a morning erection.

  • I just rubbed her bottom and she fell assleep..

  • So this morning stay nude.

  • I cant even get my princess too eat breakfast..

  • Are you both nude? Hand feed her.Have her sit on your lap while you feed her.

  • I have boxers on and she has pjs on. You mean force feed her.?

  • Take your clothes off hers and yours and have her sit on your lap and feed her like you would when she was a baby.

  • She will not be impressed with me even trying too feed her and yet alone naked..

  • Just do it she may surprise you and enjoy that.

  • Rite she damm well spilt breakfast on kitchen floor..

  • Let her starve then.

  • I spanked her and have her on my lap now crying. Trust me she would hold out for days and it aint happening..

  • How do you feel now?

  • She is assleep for now and fell assleep crying. I fed her like you said and she spat it out several times. Which got her more spankings. She ate most off it in the end after alot off tears, tantrums, spitting and name calling..

  • Sleeping nude and your nude right?

  • She is still nude on sofa sleeping..

  • She needs her rest.

  • Thank you and she sure does. She just never gives in and its first time in long time she slept this early...

  • Hope you are walking around nude also.

  • Looking at her so calm and beautiful maybe even spread out.

  • She woke up in bad form and was being cheeky and called me a f*** head and more and again she refuses too eat. She asked if her pal could come over later also. But i said not with the attitude she has rite now and reminded her. That bold girls do not get nice things. I wont repeat what she said too me. I am concernd honesly about her not eating. She is allready thin. I have not spanked her yet butbi could realy blister her butt at this moment. My sister and family will be over later.....

  • Not eating is not a good thing. Is she drinking water or juice at least to keep hydrated.

  • She wont take even juice, milk or water and says im f*** head. Im tempted too spank her again. I know she is doing it because im setting boundaries with her..

  • She is pushing as much as she can to exert power over you.

  • Would i be wrong too spank her. I know for a fact she is playing me...

  • Spank her this is discipline.

  • I spanked her and have lunch and milk in front off her. I told her she will not move from table till she is finished. She is crying and has her hands folded. By she is stubborn..

  • Who will win her being stubborn or her stomach?

  • Thanks and im going too spank her again. She has not taken a bite or drop off milk and banging table..

  • Keep at it you will do fine.

  • So are you there.....

  • Here now.

  • Well she barely ate a thing and she is sleeping on sofa again wiped out. My sister will be here soon with her family..

  • Here goes and i am given her one more chance too eat and if she refuse i will do as you suggest..

  • It is possible that she is anorexic. Hitting her head did not help.

  • I genuine dont beleave it is that. She can be bad at times eating. But it is since i started too discipline her...

  • Then it is her way at fighting back only that it is hurting her more.

  • I will wake her up now and get a soup even into her...

  • Wish you success.

  • Stay close please. As it is never easy as im sure you know..

  • Hope it went well.

  • Thanks my sister and family are here now. I need too bath her and it will be a battle.....

  • Patience to both of you.

  • Here we go again. Im gettin pretty tired off her tantrums....

  • Keep her nude after spanking rest of today as punishment.

  • Well she should be in bed anyway. She kicked my sister a minute ago..

  • You should have sister spank her nude butt.

  • She is pushing her luck so bad here.....

  • Maybe for her next spanking have her legs parted a bit so you are actually spanking her v***** also just a few spanks this could help deter her future mis behaving.

  • Would that damage her. Im going into her now as she is thrown a tantrum..

  • No damage do not use a lot of force . Then after spanking you do put lotion on the whole area to soothe it.

  • I will do it now and be back soon......

  • I done it and she is sobbing......

  • Time will tell if she will obey.

  • Her bare p**** is quite red and she wont come out off her room. Do you think i should bring her out....

  • You can bring her out and apply lotion on her bottom and v*****.

  • She refuses too join us.......

  • You are having a very rough day.

  • I am and thank you i feel so guilty..

  • Why do you feel guilty ? Is it because you spanked her ? Do not feel guilty you love your princess with discipline

  • Taken her home now and she is still be rude...

  • Safe travels.

  • Hope your well and everything is a battle with my princess...

  • It is sometime but reassure her of your love and cuddle her often and shower her with kisses. Have a nice nude day.

  • I spanked her on the spot and carried her kicking and screaming too bath and stripped her and bathed her. She is in bed crying her eyes out as we speak. I had too give her a terribale spanking too get her to cooperate. She is letting out screams now and then. She must be shatterd and she wont give in....

  • If she doesn’t eat take pictures of her nude and send them to us at emails that we give you

  • Get lost.You are asking for child p***.

  • ? Who is this...

  • I have but she is upset and still sit on chair in corner..

  • O s*** i will..

  • The best way to deal with her is to confront her in front of her dad. Let your husband know what is going on ahead of time, and you two decide ahead of time what her punishment will be. I took everything out of my sons bedroom but a bed and a dresser, and he had to stay in there when he got in trouble. Anyway, have a family meeting and tell her that you heard the lies she is telling, and ask her why she is doing it. Tell her that for every time she lies, she gets punished. Before she starts school, have a meeting with the principal, teacher, and counselor. Let them know there is a behavioral issue with her, you and your husband are working on it with her, and if there are any issues in school, please let you know . Also, start doing "rewind and repeat". When she does something you don't like, stop her, tell her you didn't like whatever she did, tell her/show her what she should have done, and make her do it correctly. Then have her rewind and repeat the correct action 10 or 20 times so it sticks in her head. If she messes up at any point in her repeats, she starts back over at 1. It's actually entertaining to watch them struggle to get to the end of the repeats without messing up. It also helps them learn correct behavior. It works no matter what it is they do wrong. It also establishes that you and your husband are the boss. Good luck!

  • When you started out by describing "my step-daughter (R)" I thought you meant R for Republican. I'm reading too much politics.

  • Her father and you need too get on the same page. Spank her bare butt and give her time out...

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