Lazy overweight friend
I have this friend that is married to a great guy, and he's pretty easy on the eyes too. She's had three kids, and has gained weight, but please don't misunderstand me I think she's beautiful. She's now a BBW, but so am I. My post here is not to judge her looks.
Since she gained the weight she also stopped being active. Their home used to be very tidy, but now she won't let family come over because it's a disaster. It's not just messy with kids stuff...it's actually dirty. Dog hair collected in every corner, dirty dishes all over the counter and in the sinks. Smear marks on the walls, and filthy floors.
She doesn't work, but her husband works 60+ hours per week. He cleans on the weekends, but he's one person against four others. My friend claims she's too uncomfortable, and sore. She says she would clean it but she can't move like she used to.
When she says this stuff I want to scream at her!! I am actually a bit bigger than she is - but also taller. I clean my entire house, I cook, I take care of my kids, I walk my dog, and I work full time. I keep my home and my physical self very clean at all times. I can be watching a program but at every commercial I get up and clean something.
I think it's all just excuses, but she's got the handsome attentive husband and I have the male version of her.