Starting to wonder if my wife and I are not going to make it. Any time I am incapacitated she gets really really p***** off at me. I cannot help it that my knee is swollen up and I cannot walk, thus I cannot help with chores. She wanted me to take our son swimming, but the idea of driving while in these pain killers honestly freaks me out, plus even in water, I would think the knee would hurt. I am supposed to see an orthopedist, but am waiting a referral from my primary doc. None of this is my fault. I want to help, I do! It makes me worry about the "in sickness and in health" provision of the marriage vows. She is frequently sick and I civet things for her. I direct her church music group, I pick up our daughter from dance even though I wake up at 4AM (she wakes up at 5:30) and dance class ends at 9. I feel like when she is sick she expects me to care for her, but if I am sick she expects me to just suck it up. Usually I am pretty good at that, but at the moment I just ave no mobility.