Met my second wife at work. I was just divorcing my wife. We hooked up and then got married. I made mid six figures. Every dime I spent in alimony or on my son I got grief. She would spend that amount on herself.
I. Finished paying off my wife but things never changed. First class only . Trips for her and her family. Expensive cars.
My business went bad but I still had a job. Unfortunately she did not adjust and went through all our savings.
When bills piled up.she would scream and belittle me. Wouldn't make a budget. Told me I was a failure and not having money at my age was embarrassing for me. Her young nephews were doing better. This is after I lost 200000 on a biz for her and put her in school. . Now I am made to feel like a bum even though I make decent money. God forbid I lose my job. I will be out.