The Last Straw
To my sons' dad. You were once your child's world! You decided you wanted the drug life and low class white trash girls who would put up with your abuse. Your son needed you today and you didn't show again. You give him no money, time, conversation, a card for goodness sakes. He is falling hard - and you hurt him bad today by not being there. I will never take another call from you, you are dead to me. I will no longer encourage him to keep trying to have a relationship with you, because all you do is disappoint him. I will no longer bring him to your parents for Holidays so you can talk about yourself and leave before your kid does. I ** hate you to the core.
L M A O!!! Reproducing doesn't automatically turn some idiot into a higher evolved being after all. Something most parents refuse to learn, while the rest of us (including other parents) either roll their eyes or laugh at scum like you outright, like I just did.
Feel sorry for you Child!
This really is a sad situation. Because you make up so many excuses for his dad to protect your child's feelings. As you should. He puts you in a really difficult situation. I have a friend who grew up in a very similar situation. The problem is that my friend blamed herself as to why her father never wanted to see her..even though it was the furthest from the truth. And she even knew that as well. But it ties into feelings of abandonment. The only thing to maybe reconsider is his your child's relationship with his grandparents. If that is good, consider keeping that strong. Regardless of how ** he is as a father (and hopefully he will step up one day soon..) he will always be his father. Thankfully, this child has an awesome mother.
^^^^^ Thank you
I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this problem. I hope your life gets better. And soon.
I your sons father uses drugs your son is better off without him.
Cut daddy from your lives asap and take time to foster your true family. Dont waste anymore energy on a deadbeat.