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Self Harming
I used to self harm a little. When my BFF found out who did so and was suicidal I lied about the reason. I told her it was over a boy and had to dramatise everything. The real reason was my body issues and the pressure to be skinny from my mother. I don't know why I lied but she must have thought I was pathetic. But whenever I did tell her a problem she would say I don't have depression so it doesn't matter.
A self-harmer who tends to lie and over-dramatize? No! No, I just CAN'T believe that!!!
Step in front of a bus.
Seek out better friends, as your bbf ** **. She should be more supportive and understanding.
Talk to someone loyal and trustworthy, about your issues and your mother. Try confronting your mother and inform her, that her own insecurities are destroying your self esteem. Essentially, your mother is destroying your confidence, self worth, self esteem and encouraging body dysmorphia. She's not a healthy role model. Be blunt and tell her.
Perhaps discuss things with a school counsellor, fav teacher? Anyone you think you can trust ad confide these specific matters to.
Explain to the class how the BFF was sucky in any way. OP is the one who had to make a big huge mess out of a simple situation, all in the name of Being Triggered and Needing Attention.
This is why people like me despise people like you. We have to bat cleanup after you're done spreading around ** advice that doesn't take the situation's basic facts into account. You probably thought you were being all astute and everything when you wrote this. You weren't.
True BFF's should be able to take the truth especially in situations like this where they could help more knowing & are not harmed by the knowing