Sexuality Confused
There's this one girl who is totally hot and sporty and literally perfect! We sleep in the same dorminatory (I'm a girl) so we got kinda close. I mean I think I'm attracted (in a friendly way) to her cuz why not she has a perfect sense of humor, style and don't get me starting on that body... but every time I saw her getting touchy with other girls I was so... sad. I shouldn't be but I just couldnt help it... what should I do?? She'll freak out if I say I love her but ughhh I don't know even if I'm straight or not... I'm interested in guys also.. but she's way better... help...
If you like boys and girls you are bisexual, if she is your crush and friend shall not except you the same? So I say give it a chance and talk to her
Or the op could be "pansexual or sexually fluid" something's aren't as simple to define and compartmentalise. A person can be attracted to another person's attributes and personality, without gender being a part of that attraction. Sometimes it's not as simple as, "liking girls or/and guys"
We find and communicate love and ** in so many ways - sight, touch, gifts, time etc. It's also so hard when you have a crush. You feel like you cant act in case you end up hurt or laughed at or whatever. As I've gotten older, I've watched other people and it seems take that risk. In general even when you get rejected usually they don't laugh at you. I put that into action. My wife went cold on me so I figured go find love somewhere else. Now I'm having a wonderful affair with a woman. It is so so hot