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Nanny who no longer want someone kids
I have been a nanny for the past year! I have to say that this is a raw deal,they are not even mine and I can't cope. During the week I find myself flying down the highway in the rush to get these rats out of the car and my life ASAP!! It's really a blessing that I got to do this as now I can see what parenting is REALLY all about.Never in my life did I think I could be so angry, miserable and tried. Sleeping in is just a no no in the week and I can only imagine how much more brutal it is not having that for your weekends. Children feel neglected in a blink of an eye, it hurts to hear my kids say "I forgot I had parents" after the weekend because mommy and daddy where just not interested in entertaining them. It's really been an eye opening experience for me and I will be getting my tubes tied when I get home. Yes blah blah I am 24 and could change my mind but you know what? I don't think I will. If you know yourself then these decisions are not taken lightly. Kids are NOT! In the cards for me. I would be depressed without my weekends off and that's a fact. These buggers are not worth my sanity, life, time and resources. ** to the freaking no to kids.
When I made the choice the relief was profound! No anxiety about finding a partner the right age so his not 50 when the kid is 10,about marriage or my career! Just discovered how much time I have on my hands!! Yaaaay I couldn't be happier.
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