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My wife divorced me.
Now I want to die. Pretty sure I will be spending Christmas alone. Probably kill myself then.
Now I want to die. Pretty sure I will be spending Christmas alone. Probably kill myself then.
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
Try to spend some time around friends/family. Keep yourself busy. I once was single and spent a holiday volunteering at a homeless shelter. It was actually fun to be around people and make friends, even for the day. Good company = good hearts. You'll be okay, keep your chin up.
I spent over 25 years married and when we divorced I felt absolutely gutted. I knew we had troubles and we'd gone to marriage counselling and then she just announced it.
I spent like a year just spaced out. Depressed. Could not think straight. Just going through the motions of going to work. Just a kick in the guts. I did try a few things like going to a gym and joining a social touch footie team and that was a great head space fixer.
One day met this girl in a coffee shop. She did not look anything special and I guess neither did I. Just stood in the queue together and chatted while we ordered coffee. Same thing happened same girl a week or so later. Third time we laughed that maybe we were stalking each other. Sat and had coffee. Gradually it picked up and now we kind of date. Not a full on relationship. Not sure if I actually want that. But sharing a few meals and the occasional movie.
So mate, move on from the ** and look for some positives in the world.
Don't let that ** win. DON'T LET THAT ** WIN! Go get yourself a ** to spend Christmas with. Christmas Day is on a Monday, so get her for Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday, and ** her like a madman. Do not allow your ** wife to win. Spend the holidays ** and ** and ** and ** and **. If that ** calls, tell her, "I don't have time to waste, dear; I'm busy ** a ** in your bed, so go to **." You'll be amazed by how much better your outlook will be after you've spent a holiday weekend with a **. Hookers are great. They're the best. **, don't wait for Christmas: start on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving and go through THAT whole weekend, too. But here's a tip: use a DIFFERENT **. See?
So true. A good ** is a real joy.
... or in jail
Dont look at it as her divorcing you .. look at it as if she stepped out your way, so you can have a new lease on life ... id kill to be in your position, ** alot of us would because you get to start over & legitimately go find a new person thats tens times the woman your wife was or travel go out & have adventures .. all im saying sure divorce is terrible for losing a spouse yet you gain so much back like your independance & you can't put a price tag on that ..