questioning

(short practicle advice: Get SECTRETLY some dna from your husband, and your dna. Bring its to a Lab and make DNA-Test. it will give you a clear result. if its husband, its over jus forget it. If its not him, you still can decide if you tell or just keep it as secrete cause life is going good anyway )
you can get husbands DNA secretly or you just tell him from beginning and you make the test openly together)

it has nothing do to with moral or shame or being guilty.
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** is normal.
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Getting children is normal.
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People can get children from diffrent parntners, aslong the child will have a nice life, and be cared.
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there is no reason to have horrible feeling,
no reason to be ashamed, or no reason to feel guilty.
Its just getting a child.
And it can be from any man on earth.
there is no reason to be married.
It was just an old system installed in a time which is far away.
And there was diffrent reasons.
And it was even installed by people who wanted control others.
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there for the also made fake storries in a Menmade-book(bibel)
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to make people feel shamefull.
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but its all over . We are smarter now.
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you just have this horrible feeling cause people, TV,radio, and other stuff around you made this wierd statments .
They made it look like its a "Must" to be married.
But in fact its just a Menmade thing.
there is no must.
there is nothing bad.
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but dna test can make it all clear.
thanks to science and rational thinking minds

That is awesome. Talk about paying for your sins. For the rest of your life this is going to haunt you. Good Job!

Thank you for your nice comments.
And you are right. It is your life and you have to live it. AT these times it might be very difficult.. But i'm quite sure it will improve for you. I can read from your short messages that you are a kind person who deserves love...
Will you tell your husband? Or keep it a secret and let him enjoy his child?

I wish every one was more like the husband above me, unfortunately people aren't. I don't think anyone here can tell you how to handle this situation. You need to listen to your heart (cliche I know). If you listen to your fears and other people's comments it is only going to make things harder. How are you going to live with yourself if you don't do what your heart tells you is right?

If you are 98% sure that it's your hubby's than why worry? Plus if your husband loves you he should/will forgive you if he finds out that it's not yours. Maybe for your own peace of mind you might do a DNA test.. Anyway, I'm a husband and I surely would not care about that.... I would value for your actions in general and not for one mistake...
People should be more forgiving and more accepting. Life would be a lot easier...
Good luck.. And Merry Christmas..

'bible thumper'??? Science confirms the zygote is a living human being and could not be anything else. I never mentioned religion as a reason to not kill the child. It is a human rights and civil rights issue. You may want to bash religion as a reason to kill it but that only makes you an idiot because secular science and civil law say otherwise.

^ Why give the child a questionable start?

You wanna keep calling each other names **?

^^idiot^^ Why give the child a death sentence?

Abortion.