Confused

So I've been dating this guy for 4 months now... Not four months straight cause we took a break and are back together... We're both on track together and feels like my eyes drift off to this guy Erik... He's cute but I hardly know him... Is it considered cheating to think a guy other than your bf is cute and talk to him? Please help me

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  • Depends on what you say to Erik. If you are simply friends, that is one thing, but if you are aching to get into each other's pants, that's another. Be careful.

  • You are experiencing a text book "crush" on him. You are interested and facinated.
    The issue with a crush is you learn a bit about him then the flame dies quickly. He might sound like Micky Mouse or be looking at your boyfriend more than you. Who knows.

  • What does that mean?

  • It means talk to him about something. Not just to make small talk. Erik could be in a relationship. See if he is bi-sexual. He could make you two into a threesom.

    Joking. Honestly it will be cheating in the sense you are thinking. You want to explore a possibility of new love, you don't want the current love you getting.

  • You're making it too complicated. Just talk to the other guy. See what develops. Could be nothing. Could be amazing.

  • It is not cheating to think about someone else. It's the taking action past that.

  • ^totally true^

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