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My dad beats me.
I recentally turned 16 and my father still beats the living ** out of me. I don't know how he is ** 48 years old and can still ** man handel me. It's compeltly **. He is nothing but a fake **. I've been lifting weights and ** but he makes it impossible for me. If he sees me on his equipment he'll beat me. He took me out of gym classes an told them I'm not aloud in due to health reasons. ** **. I could kill him. My mother left me with this ** ** monster when I was nine. He beat the ** out of her too. No ** wonder I'm left here alone. What's even better us he is a godamn cop. He has a ** loaded gun and all his other **. I hate him. I really do. I can't ** talk to him, about anything. He rolls his eyes and tells me to get a shrink. He has put me through **. He checks my facebook messages texts phone calls everything. ** everything. I have to delete my history off my laptop. My phone turns off at ten everyfucking night. I'm ** sixteen man, lay off. It's ** redicouls. I smoked weed with my friends for a ** ling time and when he finds out he ** hit me across the face in front of them and put me in rehab. I'd kill myself if I could. But I'm waiting to get strong, I'm waiting till I can beat the living ** out of my old man and then maybe. I'll do it then. He hates everything about me. He hates my long hair, which isn't even past my ** ** chin. He hates my music. My ** attudite. My fuxking smile. My ** clothes. Everything. I can't ** drive until I start getting Bs which is ** redicouls because I have Ds and there us no way in ** I can get them up. I'm in ** highschool man. I don't give a rats ** about collage. I'm joining the ** marines. One day I'm ** going to find my brother an mom and ask them why the ** they left me. Why they never came back for me? Why they let me get beat whipped and molested by my father. I'm obviously not enough for you.
I have a similar problem when my dad gets drunk he beats me and argue for no reason but that's when he's drunk. You have it worst than me man sorry
My dad sticks it in me
Just commite kid
You know how hard that will be
My dad doesn't even love me at all he always keeps o beating me .Like today I was studying at my room and doing my hw I was absent on the last day of the school so my friends sent me the notes and I was copying it in my notebook my dad was on a bad mood and he came to the bathroom which is opposite to my room .Then he suddenly started beating me up for no reason .He kicked ,punched and slapped me until I fell to the floor I wept but no avail . He even pulled my hair which hurt me a lot . And I was also not well today I was ill and I had severe headache and doctors had advised me to take care. But , when I cried I had an increase in my temperature and my head started paining more I felt like dying .I also had test on the next day . I HATE him he is a ********* . He never trusts on me and says that I might get a boyfriend and run away with him and prevents me from talking to my guy friends and keeps checking my messages though I don't want a bf.The other day I was sitting on a sofa as I was tired a lot because I was ill in the afternoon and he suddenly started beating me so hard that I had bruises all over my face and body and he said that no boy will ever marry me because I m ugly as I m short and have a dark complexion .I m freaking out as a 13 year old female
Dude, you are frickin gay :(
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I feel you. My dad beats me for everything and then blames it on me. my mom also always goes on his side and shouts and screams at me. I feel like everybody hates me.
Dude clearly your mom had no choice and left you behind I am sure it's breaking her heart everyday !
You said he is a cop so she knows she can't do a ** thing ! More then likely he threaten to kill her if she took you .
You need to get out of the house NOW !
When you were in rehab why didn't you report your dad is ** you and beathing you ? That was your chance to get away from him dude I would of never gone back to him .
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After the call, you need to run as far from where you took that call PRONTO, because they most likely will try and find you. They'll probably try to convince you that they'll protect you from your father, and even if they try, it might not succeed and you'll be in your father's hands again.
Don't stay at a friend's house if your father has any way of contacting your friend's parent's, or if you can't trust your friend's parents to keep your stay a secret. My father almost got caught by doing that. I would honestly go out of state and find a very cheap camping ground to take shelter in, or even a homeless/woman's shelter. Many women's shelters will take in younger people running away from abusers or rapists without contacting authorities. Again, wit comes into play as you still have to know who to trust. The rest will be history, as the women/homeless shelter's providers will try to support and help you get back on your feet by the time you're legal. If you are too afraid to run away, then you'll just have to brave it out. Don't start trouble with back-talking to your dad, pretend he's always right and stay on his best side if possible EVEN if it makes you want to throw up (trust me, I know that feel, but in the end they're the suckers and you're the winner haha. It's a game of manipulation!). If at any time you feel your life is in danger, though, it's better to try and get out of the situation than to be a sitting duck. Sorry it's a long type. I tend to do type a lot in serious conversations, lmao. At least know that even strangers on the internet care for your well being. I give you my best of luck and more... You're strong. That's why your dad tries to keep you "weak". He knows he's screwed if you lift any of his weights, haha! You'll make it through. Just use this time to become a better person than the one's you were raised by! Any future kids you have will be some of the luckiest. 8']
My dad was spanked bare ** for absolutely no reason by his father, even when he was 17 years old. Finally one day, he tried to spank my dad.. he took off his belt, and right before it hit, my dad grabbed the belt with his hand and pulled his dad's face up to his. It stung his hand, but he just stared his father down for a good 10 seconds. His dad was shocked enough that he didn't even say anything during those seconds. Then, my dad put his free hand's index ** up in his father's face and said, "That's the last ** time." He let go of the belt, grabbed a bag full of clothes he had already packed up to run away with, and left.
My dad would get calls from his friends about his parents wanting him to come home, but he wouldn't, and in return child services let him live with one of his close friend's family until he was of legal age.
The best thing you can have right now is TACT. Outwit your ** of a father! Keep your mouth shut (as hard as it is to do that) when he yells at you and be as decent of a person as you can. If the authorities get involved and find out you've cussed out and protested your father, the less of a chance they'll be on your side!
If you have a video recorder or mic, set it somewhere it can record your father verbally/physically abusing you. That will give you evidence to use against him, if needed.
I don't promote running away, but if have money saved up, if he even lets you have a job (mow peoples lawns behind his back, even!), to support yourself, then it'd be in your safety's best interest to do so. Especially since you said he's molested you.
If you do run away, then while you're on the road, find a payphone or borrow a stranger's to call child services. Respectfully give them a location of the recorded evidence you'll leave somewhere safe for them to take, tell them that you've been molested by your dad and in no way will you allow yourself near that man again.
Im 16 years old my father treats me like **. My mother left me all alone with him and he was married to an 18 years old girl she beats me and she encourage him to drink alcohol and once I heard her talking to her boyfriend about putting poison in my father's food and when he die she will take all his money and run away with her boyfriend.... Also I hate my dad I tried to tell him but he never listen I don't know what to do I'm **.....
Do this .... First get him angry and let him beat the ** out of you make sure he leaves marks. Then run away and break the law while you do it like steal a car or steal his car and wreck It don't be scared the bigger the offence the more that everyone will know that something is wrong ( make sure you have the marks on you at this time) . Say that you were in fear of your life from him and can never go back but make sure it's bad enough because you can never go back you are going to ruin his life from this. Then you will probably make the local news make sure you tell the police you want to see a lawyer when you go to jail if the public defender doesn't believe you get on the phone and start contacting every lawyer in the book one of them will take it because of the publicity. When you get emancipated sue the son of a ** for every dime he has and use it for your college education and go live yourself a nice life.
No No No, wait a minute, the proper thing to do here is go to the newspaper, that's right. the newspaper, and blow this dude up in public, it is 2012, you do that, and this ** will be on Nancy Grace tomorrow night, and you will be permanently free. That is the way, in public, blow him up. Unless you made this up, which means, you need to get a shrink, but if you are sincere, and it is still happening, blow him up in the media first.
You all think you have it tough? My uncle rapes me, I see dead people and voldemort killed my parents.
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one time when i was 13 years old i saw my dad beating the ** out of my mom so i took my metel baseball bat and whacked my dad in his ** head there was blood everywhere but he survived it would happen almost every night