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Not fulfilling need.
My wife won't fulfill my needs. I ask for ** and nothing. I literally have to beg for it before I get it. And good luck with oral. She's so lazy when she does it. And then when I ask her if I can ** another woman she says no. Like she thinks she'll lose the power or something. I just want to be relaxed and ** when I want. I do everything else she ask. I work hard and bring home the money and and take care of all my responsabilities. Yet she's never happy to satisfy my needs. I know I might not be the best husband. And I can be a ** from time to time. But I think I deserve this. I'm tired of asking. One more talk about it then I'm just gonna go find me a side chick and do it anyways.
If you've got to ask - you're finished.
Tell her she's got a lot of competition with you're right hand. It never complains, is always ready to help, and doesn't ** in bed.
You might want to mention that although you haven't FOUND an alternative to her yet, you'll keep looking. Shouldn't take too long.
This is the problem with a lot of marriages. Many women think that just because they now have a rock on their ** they don't have to try anymore, that you'll just accept it and shut up. Not to mention that they think it's all about them and their wants thanks to feminism. What you're wife needs to understand is that ** in marriage is a team effort. You both do things that the other person likes and desires, even if you don't particularly like doing those certain things. If you truly love that person then you'll want to satisfy them by any means necessary. Before you stray, try to get to the bottom of this issue such as for example, is she cheating on you? Was she abused when she was younger? Is she all used up sexually from having many past partners before you? (If that's the case then she REALLY has no excuse and owes you ** big time) If none of the above qualify and she still refuses to give it up for you, then it's time to split. At that point it's obvious your wife isn't attracted to you except for financial stability. Just my two cents.
Women wonder why men cheat, right here is your answer. It really doesn't take much to keep a man happy in a relationship but if you fail to fulfill his sexual needs he will look to be taken care of elsewhere.
True that
Not why men cheat, but why people cheat in general. I stopped having ** with my ex because I didn't feel attractive after our child was born and needed that reminder that I was still attractive in his eyes. The lack of communication crushed our relationship. I'm in a new relationship where we both feed each other's needs because we have great communication
Many years ago when we were first married my wife got mad over something and with held ** for a few nights I guess she thought that was my punishment. On the fourth or fifth night after trying to have ** with her and her turning me down I got up and went into the bathroom with her saying "that's right get used to using your hand ". The surprised look she had when I came out showered and fully dressed was classic. I told her I was not asking her again for ** and if she wasn't willing than I was going out to find a woman that enjoyed **. It has been 27 years and she has never again with held ** out of anger or used it as some form of punishment.
Dude don't cheat. Cheater's are among the lowest of scum right down there with **'s and murderers. If it's that bad then definitely try to have another talk to get to the bottom of this issue so maybe you two can work it out and improve your ** life. If not then just divorce her so nobody gets seriously hurt.
I beg to differ, Women who use ** as a weapon or only put out to get what they want are among the lowest of scum. If you are married ** is something that needs to be provided by both spouses. If your needs aren't being met find someone that will meet them.
I'm waiting for the day my wife asks if I'm having an affair. I'm going to say "yes".
Do not do everything she wants. She thinks that you are her pet. And play it cool and wait. It will change. Dont let her make you say "I might not be the best husband"
Exactly! I know, been there done that. You can't kiss up or ever do enough. Another thing not to do is get caught cheating then they really have the F'n power over you. Been there done that. Get out all together then go get you some.
What can you do to be a better husband? Because maybe if you are fulfilling her needs (which isn't always **), she'll respond to your needs. Talking and communicating are always good things, it's important to talk. But remember being satisfied .. it's not always about you. So stop making it about you..that may be your biggest issue. You don't mention how long you have been married, if you have kids, your age etc.. because all those can factor into your ** life, or lack therof. It almost sounds like pleasing you is a chore for her, so she avoids it. But maybe it's also her.. is she happy with her life, looks, body? Is she depressed? Cause when you're not feeling **, ** is probably last on her list. Do you tell her she looks pretty or pull out the romantic gestures ..just because?
The love could be gone and she sees themselves as roommates.
I lived a life once of most you posted. I filed for divorce then told her I did. She was utterly shocked ?