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Life ** with children!
I am 36 years old, married, and have two boys. Wow, where do I begin! Children are a freakin nightmare, PERIOD!!!! I have a three and one year old that are driving me f****** CRAZY, and the wife too! My wife is from Peru and being with someone from another culture is rough. If I could go back I would change EVERYTHING because no wife means no family, which would be perfect in my situation right now. To describe it all in a nutshell, having a family means losing ALL OF YOUR FREEDOM!!! And as an American, freedom is what I cherish the most. For me to be able to do anything I’d like is a DREAM and the best dream I can ever ask for.
Me being a parent, I can’t sleep like I used to, get up and go wherever I want like I used to, buy what I want like I used to, etc. I like to read, learn languages, go to zoos, aquariums, travel/road tripping, kayaking and then unexpectedly see a pod of orcas, but I’ll probably never see the day when I can do these things again (everything I would have seen in person I have to watch now on YouTube to get only a small fraction of that Excitement)
And with children? Kiss your bank account goodbye. You constantly have to pay for ** you don’t need and will never see again, try to decipher what in the ** your child is saying, carry them when your arm is already dying from carrying his ** around for 30 minutes prior just because he doesn’t like to sit in one spot, hear your children screaming in your ears then have to make a dr’s appointment for bad hearing, cleaning up after them, seeing their little ** break everything, WTF?? And the lists goes on and on.
This is something I will be complaining about for many years from now. I don’t care! I already hate it. I want my old life back. Now I understand why millennials prefer not to get married. If you want to live a healthy life, one in which you can actually go out and actually exercise, then NEVER GET MARRIED!!!! If you want a more financially-secure life and never have to worry about being low on funds, then NEVER GER MARRIED!!!! If you hate stressing all the time because your children are sick in the hospital then NEVER GET MARRIED!!!!!If you just appreciate FREEDOM then NEVER ** GET MARRIED!!!!!!!
Oh and the cliché: “I don’t want to be/die alone” **. Trust me, life isn’t all about “finding love.” It’s about finding yourself. Understanding who you are as a person,especially in 2018. When that happens then you decide if your personality is fit for marriage. My isn’t. But this doesn’t mean i’m gonna be a crappy father. I married and brought two humans into this world so now I have a huge responsibility to see the well-being of my boys.
Just a little advice to the youngsters that happen to read this. Don’t get married!
Hay dad and its not even fair dad i cant find you dad and im awake ages dad im even ready for school dad and i did a note for my teacher dad on my own and said sorry dad and i put luv hearts on it dad and xxxxxx dad they better not laufgh at me again dad and were still at my brothers girl friends friends dad and dad she used my hairbrush and belt dad and no clothes on dad and mom said later she is go to blister my ** dad its so so unfair dad im you little girl dad hugs you dad and please go to school with me dad i luv you dad xxxxx
Yeah. I know what you're saying. I love my son, but shortly after my son was born my wife decided she didn't want ** anymore. It **. No ** with her for nine years! She started to balloon-up and now eats everything in sight. Her weight went up by about 60lbs. She actually said I should find someone else to f***, but not in the town we live. I did just that on may occasions , but when I go away for a few days for so-called "business trips" when I get back she's all crabby for about a week. BTW: Finding a willing female who lives few hours away is quite a time-consuming task. Learn from my mistake and DON'T GET MARRIED!
Should have used condemns or made her swallow, or in her ** or on her face, too many options dumb moron loser
Hello hun and love yoo you and wife **
Morning hun too you amd wife. my babys are still sleeping. i see some off babys are back on last posts hun. whats you plans for the day hun **
Hun i see things are back running. Love too you and your gorgeous wife. Im so happy babys are going to be ok and find you hun. They seem confused, angry and upset hun **
Good morning hun too you and gorgeous wife and i was resting. my friend took my babys too school. looks like you were busy and will be busy again hun. i hope baby boy is ok hun as notice hes not on here hun **
Hello hun and you amazeing with them **
I laughed out loud about the breaking ** part. A little advice, invest in a safe for your car keys when they are 11. I used to go to a movie by myself once in awhile while mine were in school to feel normal for a minute. Xo
Hey I'm sorry for your pain, but this post reaffirms my desire to never have kids. Lucky for me my husband already has some, so I'm free as a bird. But for a long, long time I was very resentful at him because he didn't want anymore kids. It's a sad thought when you think about missing out on motherhood. But not really, ahahaha. But really it's not a matter of not being married, it's a matter of birth control. You can't divorce kids. Again, sorry for the mutiple pains in the ** you have over there.
You're just finding this out? Really?
A kid equals 15 years of servitude.
I got 2 kids too. 4 yo boy n 1.5 yo girl. I want a divorce. I love my kids. I just hate my wife. that's is all.
Is she that bad
When you dropped the two loads into your wife to make your children, was the ** worth it? I'm sorry, but birth control is too good these days.
Don't listen to the negative comments. As long as you take care of your family, which you say you are, then let it out. I think all of my peers who are married are unhappy, in this case it's because their wives are horrible, although their kids are all teens, and are so privileged and skip school, one of them is so fed up with his son he's thinking of forking over some major cash to send him to a military boarding school. My kid isn't too bad, but I smartened up and only had one, wife wants another one, but I'm not falling for that, even though I pay for daycare and she sits at home all day, she's managed to get fat, while I practically live at the gym. Once you get to a point where your kids go to school, it gets easier, you'll have more time to work on yourself. Good luck.