Tough times

Ive been with someone for 3 ish years and we got engaged last year, I love them but I just can't handle it anymore. They're psychologically addicted to marijuana and they're constantly talking about suicide and self harm and eating disorders and I already struggle with those things, but having to take care of them is okay with me, I just always thought it would be 50/50 instead of me doing all the emotional lifting. I'm a very sexual person in relationships, its important to me. But they were sexually assaulted a year ago so now there's none of that. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be a good fiancé and be loyal and supporting but its getting so hard. I dunno what to do.

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  • If the relationship is a drain of your emotional and physical energy. Were they like this 2 years ago before you got engaged? What has changed? Was the sexual relationship working for you the first year? Did the assult change your relationship forever? Forever different from what you fell in love with.

  • Have you tried adapting professional help?

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