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Losing a Fight In Front a Girlfriend.
I lost a fight in front of my girlfriend, Jasmine. And I lost easily. And to a smaller guy I should have been able to handle. Can you imagine how embarrassed I was? And two of her besties were there to see it. After the fight I had to face her, and I didn't know what to say. She asked me if I was alright, and I told her I was. Nothing more was said until we were alone. And then she really let me have it. "Do you have any idea how embarrassed I was tonight?" she asked. I didn't know what to say. But she sure did. She told me how her friend, Sophie, teased her because I got beat up easily.
Until then, I never realized that a girlfriend felt so much embarrassment when her man loses a fight. But Jasmine set me straight on this. She said when a guy loses a fight, it's also a loss for the girlfriend. Except it's worse, because she had to contend with the other guy's girlfriend, who gives her the "look." The "look" lets her know that her boyfriend is the superior male. And a little smile goes along with the "look" that rubs it in even more. After the fight, Jasmine told me it isn't unusual for the winning girlfriend to make a teasing remark to the losing girlfriend. And then the losing girlfriend also has to face her friends who were there watching. And of course, those friends make sure every female they know find out how the fight went. So Jasmine had to face her two friends, Sophie and Anne. And then Jasmine had to be teased by the friends who found out about the fight. So sure it's embarrassing to lose a fight in front of your gf. But now I know it's embarrassing for the gf as well. Go figure.
I got knocked out in a backyard boxing match in front of my girlfriend when I was in college. This was a planned event based on a previous comment from the other fighter (their neighbor across their backyard, who my gf hated), who said that anyone who boxed with said person would lose. The other fighter had trained a little and so had I. We agreed to meet and we wore mouthpieces, big gloves and headgear. My gf tried to talk me out of accepting the challenge.
However, we set up a makeshift boxing ring, cheap rope and grass floor. We fought barefoot in shorts and t-shirts. The spectators were only my girlfriend, a couple of neighbors, and the other fighter's few friends, maybe about ten people, but my girlfriend was in my corner and had a front row seat. I knew when I got in the ring that I shouldn't have accepted the challenge and had thoughts about backing out but I couldn't due to everyone there. She looked at me nervously as the fight started but I fought anyway. I got a few punches in but I didn't make it to the second round. The other fighter hit me with something...a hook, I guess, but I remember the crash, biting down ** the mouthpiece and that was it. The account was that the punch knocked me out and I stiffened up and landed on my back out cold. My girlfriend got into the ring and ran to my side, taking off my headgear and taking out my mouthpiece, shouting my name and crying. When I came to, I looked around and asked what happened. People giggled. My gf said, "You got knocked out. You lost." The worst part? The other fighter was a 35 year old woman.
Tell her if she's that embarrassed by it, she can leave. In fact, don't give her a choice, just tell her that you deserve to be with a someone who respects you. Kick her to the curb.
And if it's such a big deal getting teased by the other girl, tell her to go and fight her. Then laugh as she gets the ** kicked out of her.
You win some you lose she some pal, but the important thing is, have you learnt anything?
Beat your girlfriend if she says another word about you getting your a s s beat. You underestimate the little guy. Those little guys are not punks. You don't underestimate anyone. Not a small guy or a small girl. Everyone is dangerous and all it takes is one punch to drop you. Every fight is a fight for your life. Come on man! ** up!
I have been beaten up by a smaller man & same happen to my wife by his wife so my wife hit her & than she beat up my wife
Wow your just a little **
I'm an alpha male and can sort this out for you!
What is your solution
Are you still with your girlfriend?