My wife finally told me today that she doesn't want to do marriage therapy anymore because she will never love me and doesn't want to. Honestly, I suffered for nearly five years of a loveless sexless marriage. I tried to make it work because I truly loved her, and I have two wonderful children with her. We have been married almost 9 years. I am sad and hurt because of investing everything into her, but I also feel like the largest burden has been lifted off my shoulders. We plan to separate with the intent to divorce in May when our rental agreement is over. I am planning on contacting this beautiful woman that I used to have the biggest crush on for the past two years. She started a different job a few weeks ago. She liked me too, but I didn't approach her because I was being faithful to my unloving wife. I cannot wait to contact her.