No longer can perform
I am in a wheel chair after an auto accident several years ago. I have been steadily declining in the performing my husbandly duties. Wife still enjoys s**. I have tried all sorts of things and devices along with taking V*****. Now things are getting worse. My p**** if it gets hard will only stay that way a short amount of time. Not long enough to fulfill my wife's needs. We have discussed options. She's not into oral s**. I use my fingers and she doesn't like d*****. I told her she is free to seek what she needs from someone else. She said she won't do that.
The other day she told me if we don't figure something out she might just take me up on my offer. I told her that it's ok and I understand. I asked that she be discreet and that I not know about it. This really is not where I wanted to be but sometimes things are beyond our control. I want my wife to enjoy s** and be fulfilled. We love each other very much. If the shoe was on the other foot she would be telling me to do the same thing.