How do I come out?

I think I'm bisexual. But I have a few issues.
1) I'm in a relationship with a boy rn
2) my family probably would be weirded out with it
3) the girl I fancy (who is gay) is friends with my best friend (long story but I reckon she wouldn't take well to it/ take the p***)
I don't know what to do because I don't want to live a lie. I also don't want to leave my boyfriend because I do love him. Do I tell him? I fancy this girl so much and she's single but I can't do that to my boyfriend. We've been together over a year. And only now have I accepted to myself that I'm bisexual. I guess I always knew but thought it was a phase. What am I going to do???

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  • Boi I wish

  • Take the whole gay/straight/bi identity out of the equation and rethink. You’re basically asking your significant other to be ok with polyamory. That’s a tough pill. You can still come out without that part being involved.

  • That's a good point. I don't wanna ruin what I have so I think I'm just gonna see what happens and stay loyal. I don't want a poly relationship.

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