Husbands fantasy

My husband has been sharing his fantasy for several years now. Not being pushy, just pillow talk mostly. He wants me to have s** with other men and then come home and tell him all about it. He doesn’t want to be humiliated or anything weird like that. He just wants me to spend the night with other men. I have been doing as much research as I can but it is all p***. Even the posts here seem like “j*** bait” and I don’t need that. I need real people to talk to. So frustrated. Don’t know what to do.

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  • I agreed to do what you suggested one time only. I wanted it to be the best fantasy possible for my husband. I agreed to let my husband pick who....and we agreed on a total stranger in a town about 100miles from where we live. We went to a bar and played the 'yes' 'no' game as I said yes, or no as we sat and looked around the room. I was scared to death as he approached one of the three guys I told my husband, was a yes.

  • Oh wow. That’s a kind of naughty but fun idea. What happened?

  • You are going to have to find someone you already know, that will make it easier for you. Maybe someone at work or someone you know through a club. Going out to a bar is the last thing you would want to do.
    Ask hubby what he expects you to do, let him spell it out for you. You should have rules or guide lines to help you chose a lover.
    If hubby wants you to go to a bar let him come with you , it's easier to talk with someone while hubby is there. Let us know what you decide.

  • Talk with your husband. Find out what he likes about the thought of you doing with another man. Communication is the key! Just come to bed and discuss it with me tonight.

  • I suspect hubby has not thought this thing through. Ask him what will he do when you bring one of your lovers home ? What will he be doing while you and your lover are in the bedroom together ? Tell him you will want to be alone and hubby can leave the house or hang out listening in the basement.

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