My older brother and I never got along
He lived with Our parents with his five years old illegitimate daughter. She's a nice kid but my brother didn't like my wife and me interacting with her because he didn't want us to "mollycoddle" his child. The child's mother had disappeared never to be seen again. She ran off with another man.
Ok, my brother gets caught robbing a bank and goes to prison for twenty years.
My parents are unable to take care of the girl so my wife and I take her into our home. By the time my brother gets out, she will be grown up.