Those into Feedism & fattening of your spouse, how did you meet?

My husband and I met after I added him (he looked like someone I knew from somewhere on social media) we were 18 and 19.
He was 155 when we got together, former athlete! After my pregnancy and early fatherhood I noticed he had gained some weight, and I felt insanely attracted to him and desired him more than ever. He was maybe 170? Anyway, I started calling him my big, ** man, and I started rubbing and caressing his belly (his once rippled six pack and v-line became doughy and soft with slight love handles coming in). I told him how I was digging the dad bod and that I would be attracted to him at any size when he was down on himself. What happened? He is now almost 200 lbs and drinks beer regularly and eats and drinks whatever he wants, whenever he wants, and has no shame. He has a soft, doughy belly, love handles, and small moobs. Dieting is never mentioned and he runs and pats his belly often and has the cutest double chin coming in! He gets a playful tone and calls himself a pot bellied piggy and I tell him “if you are you’re the cutest one I’ve ever seen!”
He goes wild when I tell him to “put his weight into it” and when I tell him how hot he is when I ** him during intimacy.
He’s likely only going to get fatter. We’re always fully stocked with beer and snacks and he will eat a bowl of cereal if breakfast takes too long. 🤷‍♀️

My wife and I were in the same circle of friends and I was always attracted to a fuller woman so the more attention I showed her the more time we would spend together. I remember our first date we went to a all-you-can-eat buffet and a movie and this is where I knew she was the one for me. I never was a big eater so a plate of roast beef was fine but Tricia filled a tray of plates with everything and when she finished she went back for more. While she was devouring that second tray of food I joked with her did she miss anything and she laughed and said not yet. After that second tray was empty she told me that she was always hungry and if I didn't mind would I go fill another tray of plates for her. That was when I told her that it was her size was what attracted me to her and the smile on her face I knew we were both in heaven. We moved in together months later and the buffet was an everyday thing for us 7 days a week and all our conversation was about how fat did I want her to be. I told her she could never could be fat enough for me and she said then she would let me feed her and stuff her as long as she was healthy and our journey began. Today Tricia is 617 pounds and huge all over and still gaining with our next goal at 700 pounds. Even though she is huge all her fat is sculpted so you can see enormous **, a massive belly that hangs to her knees and a massive ** that is 75 inches across. Her legs with huge thighs and calves she has no fat around her ankles so they still show shape. We both think we are the luckiest couple anywhere and truly a perfect match.

My feedee wife and I met in Jr. High She was the fattest girl in our school and I was fascinated by her size, honey blonde hair, beautiful face, great sense of humor and big personality. She was everything I wanted in a girl. We became close friends and it went for years with neither of us discussing our true hidden desires toward each other. By her junior year in HS she had become too heavy to attend school. At over 500lbs seating in school and getting around from class to class and one floor to another became a problem for her. I tried to help as much as I could but our schedules didn't always jive. So she was going to quit school. Luckily there was a program in our school system for pregnant girls to finish school at home. Our guidance counselor pulled some strings and got her into the program although she was not pregnant. The program required that someone bring home her lessons and bring in her work to the guidance office for distribution to the respective teachers. That responsibility fell on me. At this time we started spending a lot of alone time together and it was then that I confessed that I was in love with her and I was enthralled with her size and I wanted an intimate relationship with her. To my amazement she wasn't at all surprised and confessed that she wanted to be a feedee and wanted me to be her feeder. She was also in love with me and wanted the same intimacy. It was a revelation for both of us and our ** life which started slowly at first soon exploded into an orgey of food and earth shaking passion. That was 15 years ago and we are now married with two children and my feedee wife weighs well in excess of 700 luscious lbs. So far she is doing okay healthwise and has retained a reasonable amount of physical mobility and for now has no intention of stopping our current lifestyle. It's all fine by me as she is definitely my soulmate and these past 15 years have been like heaven.

Lucky guy. It's so hard finding a fat girl that is actually turned on by gaining weight. I'd say there is only a handful in every 10 million women. Most of the so-called feedees on the various feederism websites are not what they claim to be and are people who are simply catfishing. I knew one girl who considered herself a feedee but about 3 years ago she was killed in a car accident when an illegal alien broadsided her car at a traffic light.

Sorry to hear that. Yes true feedees are hard to find, especially those who consider themselves as "gainers" and don't care how fat they get. And I agree that many of them you come across on the internet are not serious. But there are some out there. You just have to keep looking. Once you find one your life will never be the same.

My wife and I are mutual feeders... We feed each other and in the 10 years we've been together we've both gained over 200lbs each. When we first met I was 470lbs and she was right around 400. She was attracted to me from the start and I to her. A mutual friend set us up on a blind date knowing that we both loved to eat. I took her to a barbecue restaurant that I used to frequent that had huge portions of food and we both chowed down like pigs. By the time we were done eating we where literally too stuffed to move but we were also so intensely turned on by each other that it was almost uncontrollable. I asked to see her again the next night and she immediately accepted. I think it was by third date we were maken bacon like two prize hogs and now after 10 years and 2 kids we are still together and the only difference is that we are deeply and incredibly in love. The food never stops flowing and the **, although becoming more and more difficult, grows more intense with every passing day. As I mentioned we've both gained over 200lbs each. As of our last weigh in, I'm 710lbs and my gorgeous wife is 614lbs. I think we've both reached a point in our weight where we need to slow down a bit or we will eat ourselves to death. The thought of that is kind of exciting but we have to think about our children who are both under 10 years old... But after they are grown and out of the house,... The fat sky is the limit...We will stuff each other into oblivion...😛

At your weight you won't make it to see your kids grow up and leave the house. Get bariatric surgery or you two will be dead within 5 years.

What size shirts do you wear? How big around is your waistline? Sounds like you two are living the dream!

My shirts are generally an 8XL 24.5" neck standard and my pants are 9XL standard which is about a 76" waist. Most of my clothing comes from kingsize.com Unfortunately both sizes are getting kind of tight so I think I may need to move up a size. The bad thing is I'm running out of sizes to move up to...😆. I guess I'll have to go custom soon.

How many tries does it take you to get up ftom bed or the couch? I'm surprised that you're not immobile at 710lbs (even more now, I assume?) Can you even work or drive at that weight?

It usually takes 3 to 4 tries to get up from a low seat. Fortunately my wife helps me as much as possible and I her. We use our own weight as a counterbalance in help each other up. We also have a pair of electrically powered "med lift" heavy duty bariatric chairs made by "Giftcraft" that help us get up. Unfortunately I've outgrown the weight capacity of them and they really struggle raising my big ** 😆. They still work pretty well for my wife although she is getting a little too wide in the hips to fit between the arms comfortably. We both still work full time but from home. I rarely go into the office nowadays and the wife only goes in once or twice every 2 weeks and that is becoming a huge undertaking. I'm an insurance actuarial and my wife is in consumer care for a major food/candy manufacturer. Driving isn't too much of a problem as we have a large van that is customized for us physically. But a standard car or SUV will not work for us. About a year ago we tried to get into a midsize SUV that my sister-in-law has but that was a no go. We almost broke the poor thing...😆

When I married my husband he was overweight but not fat-fat. Maybe it was just the comfort of a good marriage but he blew up like a Macy’s float ever since. I love squeezing his moobs and grabbing his belly and feeling all that weight on me. Just more to love!

I'm a guy, but I noticed my girl feeding me more once she started gaining -- almost like she felt more comfortable if my belly was keeping up with hers.

I hope you freaks give your partners coronary heart attacks

Feedtards, bellytards, pantytards... just one winner after another in this place

Yeah and a fucktard like you belongs right among them.

I'm also a guy, but I have the same interests as you and my wife knows and supports it to a point. I introduced her to the whole idea and she has gotten into it too and helped me gain over 100 pounds. She will help me get as fat as I want as long as my health isn't in jeopardy. So, while it may be hard to find someone specifically looking to fatten you up, you may still be able to find someone that loves you and will get into it because it is what you want. It worked for me, but obviously all relationships are different. Good luck!

Op here. Thanks for sharing, your experience gives me some hope! I do agree that it would probably be easier to go this route, I hope to find a woman who's actually into it, as I want to have a mutual enjoyment, but I also want to gain quite a lot of weight too.

She does enjoy it too! She loves playing with my belly and moobs, teasing me for outgrowing clothes, and just turning into a tub. She's helped me get to over 350 and we're still going.

I'm a guy and I like my women skinny. I have controlled my wife's food from before we were married. She is skinny and bony and sometimes feints. ** I like her and I like the power I have over her.

He said women you moron!!!
And it's faints, unless you mean she's into fencing 😂

Thank you for the clarification

You're welcome. Are you going to learn this time?

Congratulations, you still have "power" over your imaginary gf. Your mommy must be so proud of you! Why don't you climb the basement stairs and ask her if she is?

That sounds very toxic...or maybe it's just some weird-as-** kink.

Yeah, blow up girlfriends don't eat much.