Knowing my wife's secret

I met my wife following my divorce from my first wife. I knew her from school as she was a year older than me. When I was single she messaged me Facebook I guess I was feeling down and posting sad posts.
I knew she was due to get married the following year but she messaged saying she was unhappy. I said we could talk if it helped, this led to us meeting and her making a move on me. I was attracted to her so didn't turn down her advances. We started dating, she left her fiancé her everything seemed great.
She is very beautiful and easily turns heads and I knew she had many admirers. Within a year she was pregnant, totally unplanned but we have a son who is my world. Following the birth she changed a lot, going out and I began finding evidence of affairs she was having. I've always tried to help her and find an excuse why she has done what she has to me and my son. We identified she has a drink problem and it has been a long hard road which has had an effect on my son who is nine now. On the last drink relapse I almost left her as my son had had to call the police on her.
I had a long talk with my son and realised deep down he still loved his Mam as do I and I couldn't take him from her.
She is now 9 months sober and doing great but I don't think she will ever stay faithful to me. She always denies affairs she has even though I have had solid proof.
I wish she would be honest. Am I a fool to stay with her?

Jun 5, 2020

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