I miss my girlfriend

This isn't so much a confession as much as me venting. I'm studying abroad, I've been gone just about a month now. I love my girlfriend more than anyone I've ever met. We have a great relationship and still do, while I was home I always tried to do all the little things. For instance we're both in college but worked as interns and had to get up early. I would always wake up a little earlier than her so I could go walk the dog (it was cold in the morning and she hated doing it), make breakfast (usually for breakfast in beds), and start the coffee so she had a hot drink first thing in the morning. I even tried to write down some things that she said so I could remember them later to surprise her.

Now that I'm abroad our relationship hasn't suffered too much, we talk everyday thanks to skype and other free technologies and are still very much in love, however her friends at school keep telling her that there's no hope for us, and that I'm going to cheat on her while I'm over here, which is far from the case. I haven't even thought about anything like that, she means too much to me. I just don't get why these people feel the need to tell her we're not going to last, even her parents have told her to be weary. I understand the fact that we're young and prone to naievety of youth, but we've done things like talk about the future and we're both on the same page, and other people know this. I don't get why they keep telling her these things, even yesterday, the day before Valentine's Day, her friends were telling her that its not going to last.

The reason it makes such little sense is her friends don't really know me, they have no reason not to like me. I've gone to parties with them, and talk with them and have always been cordial, but they don't really know me enough to pass judgment. I just don't understand why people have to be so doubtful.

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