Need Gay Advice
I'm a gay 21M. One of the things I've been struggling with lately is the idea that I may be single forever. I really want a committed monogamous relationship with a good man, but I don't know how I'll ever get there. I'm divided because I don't want to be the guy who frequents gay bars and uses Grindr just to meet men, especially since I'm not about hook-ups, but I don't know how I'll meet any other gay guys naturally in my life. I don't want to make my life's goal to find a guy, but I know one just won't appear.
Are there any experienced (possibly married) gay men who know how to find good guys and take things slowly?