Trans insanity

I had NO problem with q****/lesbian/gay/whatever people or culture EVER. H*** I even had my fun back in my 20's ( am 48 now ) but what the f*** has happened to kids these days? I am a step father to a 14 year old girl who has changed her name 4 times this year and insists she is a boy and all her friends are the same and society is 100% behind all this and is recommending hormone therapy and Testosterone asap instead of sorting out mental/emotional health problems that increasing amounts of kids these days are facing. With the pressures of constantly being monitored by each other on social media and the general state of the world ( that they all know about due to internet ) it's no wonder they are so incredible stressed. I would hate to be growing up in these times. BUT I think how it's being handled is nothing short of f****** insane. If you even MENTION anything other than what the kid wants you are yelled at as transphobic etc. It's horrible.

Jul 14, 2020

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  • God transphobes are awful people, love and accept your SON for who HE wants to be. He's figuring himself out and is trying to decide on a name, it can be hard to come up with one when you have people not there to support you. be happy that he hasn't ended up hanging from a rope because he's scared of how you don't accept him. I'm glad he has good friends who seem to love and support them. And I support him too

  • There's something really wrong with all you people.

  • The only thing wrong with us people is you and people like you. Full of hate and anger. You cant let ppl do what they want and be who they are. No you are a whiny little b**** who hates every person who is different from you because you hate yourself. Deal with it. Get over it. You can always leave the planet. You dont have to deal with ppl who are different from you.

  • Nobody don't want to deal with this gay propaganda

  • Im soooooooo glad i raised my children off grid. i dont trust no human being.

  • Is your mom still as nasty as she used to be?

  • No new confessions

  • Yes lbgt......is sooo stupid. People have mental illness and the leftist liberal pieces of s*** make it worse.

  • You’re a r*****

  • Hi! shut the f*** up before i steal your teef!

  • You sir, have done us a favor. The effects of the media, instant over-communication via electronic devices and a host of other influences have precipitated and over-influenced the developmental process. The rush to support and advocate for somebody who is feeling different as their sexual thoughts develop is not psychologically helpful. Teenage angst has now turned into support groups who push kids into thinking they need to declare and practice a sexuality that may not truly define the person they are becoming. To compound the situation, everyone with a facebook account thinks they are an expert and rushes to be "supportive" to someone else and their feelings when those feelings have not been fully worked out and internalized. Dear world, slow done and don't rush in to support what is not, developmentally, the whole story. Be kind and good of course, but don't rush in. Let a teenager experience the real world and it's grand opportunities before setting their identity in stone.

  • YES!! ALL OF THIS!!
    And may I also add that the bottomless need for widespread attention can really bite you in the butt down the line, as evidence has already begun to show. Remember that it's SOP now to dredge up the tiniest little thing, no matter how far back in time, if you want to torpedo someone. Telling the world how much you "need" to cut now could very well kill your chances of that sweet promotion 20 years from now. What, you think that kind of thing only happens to Harvey Weinstein?

  • Congratulations you're an a******. I can't stand parents who refuse to try and understand what their trans children are going through. Try being a real father for once.

  • Lmao. Wtf. Trans isn’t real. It’s a mental illness. D*** or p****. Born with it that’s what ya got. Can’t pick. You f***** your kids head up if you tell them you can. Mental ill ass people out here lmao😂😂😂

  • What the actual f***? this isn't a mental illness you piece of s***, respect trans people for who they are!

  • Who are you???. Are you a parent??? How about you mind your business and shut your freaking mouth. Be responsible for your own children. You are not paying the bills here. When your children are grown. You are not a parent no more. They don't don't belong to you. You need to talk to God about that anger you have. You Americans always trying to control other people thoughts.

  • I wonder when we will see parents putting their young boys in dresses
    ?

  • My mother loves and accepts me for liking to womens clothing, so f*** you for thinking it makes any less of a person

  • Look below comment

  • I am a boy 14 My step parents put me in Sexy girls clothes with panties When they have parties I also wear wig wow all sorts things get done to me by their friends

  • I LOVE boys wearing panties can I be a friend?

  • Soon I hope, panties too!

  • Read my above comment

  • No new confessions.

  • This is what democrats and political correctness are doing to this country and even worse now they want to do away with the police, God have mercy on this country in the years ahead

  • LOL! You think this only a Dem thing? You are so very wrong. Repubs do exactly the same thing, they just lie like rugs denying it and are even more twisted than the Dems. At least the Dems are out in the open and having fun. It's almost enough to want to change party affiliations, but that's never gonna happen. Both need to be dismantled. But then how will sweet little brainless tw@ts like you know who to whine about?

  • Democrats are hypocrites, but they have fun doing it.

    Republicans are hypocrites, but they give themselves heart attacks having ragefits against people who are doing what they themselves want to do. And then when they get caught doing the thing, they burst into tears.

    Both sides are stuffed with mental babies.

  • Not just one country the world, the younger generation wants to do what they want, how they want , when they want and no accountability, me,me,me,me a bunch of overgrown babies

  • That was too often the case already, but yeah, this bunch really takes it to another level,, and expects validation for it too

  • Yes, constantly screaming and blaming everyone who isn't us is working out SO well, isn't it...

  • It's a trend. F***** California

  • Go back to Fox News, MAGATard

  • Shut your ignorant mouth fool, this is much more widespread than that

  • Do you think I should buy my little boy a dress?

  • Yes

  • How old is he?

  • America is DOOMED!

  • America is doomed for so many reasons. Extremists on both sides of the aisle screeching at each other all the time is a big part of it.

  • For many reasons besides this one, yes

  • I get it im14 a girl and I feel like kids my age feel the need to be different so they do this crazy s*** and parents allow it like we don't know the long term effects of letting kids change this early

  • There are so many ways to "be different". Why is it always centered around s3x, and why is it always what everyone else is doing? Isn't that kinda sorta the EXACT FVCKING OPPOSITE of "being different"?

    That has always been a teenager thing, but these days the entitled shrieking has been militarized. It starts early (*four-year-olds* are supposedly dialed in to their sexuality?!! Uh, it doesn't work that way...) and never lets up. The already biting society in the butt and it is going to get worse. Have fun with that.

    You don't know what you are until both body AND mind are done developing, which isn't until around age 25. Until then you are exploring and making mistakes and that is fine. The snotty demanding attitude that comes along with those mistakes is NOT, and is why more adults won't listen to you, aside from the fact that you have no life experience and even less ability to assess situations correctly.

  • I understand I have very little life experience but you adults need to realize that other children who are around children who say they are lgbtq+ should have a input because we have a better grip on the mindset then y'all . It's a new culture we deal with things that y'all didn't have to. I shouldn't be scared to go to sleep or be on sleeping pills because I have vivid nightmares of my school being shot up. 8 times the past year my school has went into lock down or been threatened to be shot up. I shouldn't have to deal with the panic attacks and the worries of did I tell my mom I love her every time the walkie talkie fizzes or the intercom beeps. I miss valuable class time to go over lockdown practice. And all this because the adults won't listen to the kids when we tell you that we know

  • We're had our horrors too. Don't think your that unique. You're being pampered so much you being led to believe your gen is the only ones. Suck it up.

  • I know y'all had s*** too but you can't tell me you feared school because you know there is at least three kids that are one name calling away from bringing in daddys gun

  • Were you there when we were in school? No, you were not. And while shootings didn't happen nearly as often, violence and terror and global threats were still daily realities. I'm a girl, and *I* nearly brought in Daddy's gun a few times. So, to remind you once yet again stupid child...
    YOU.
    ARE.
    NOT.
    SPECIAL.

  • I never said I was special. I said we face a bigger threat I wasn't in school with you, you aren't in school with me. Kids change their tune around other people. I've seen a crazy f****** dude with a gun looking through the school windows. I know y'all had s*** and I won't understand what it was like to be a kid then, but you won't understand what it's like to be a kid now

  • "I wasn't there but *our threats are bigger*, you just don't understand" You just never, ever stop tryna be special

  • Very true but back then we got on with it now you whine and complain about everything just a bunch of spoiled babies

  • I totally agree. I started this whole post and it's not the actual trans thing that worries me. It's the fact that most of society here ( I live in New Zealand ) and around the world seems h*** bent on putting almost any kid who says they identify as a different s** on blockers or testosterone. Which I don't think is actually the compassionate thing to do because everyone over the age of , say, 25 has been there and remembers what a difficult time it was. How full of changes etc. And most of them came out pretty different to how they thought they would. And if you are altering/changing your body permanently because of how you feel as a teenager, I'm virtually 100% that most are going to regret it immensely. Some won't of course, but what this whole post is about is the fact that we as a whole should of course take everything seriously, but try to treat the mental health/anxiety/stress etc first then have a look at the sexuality.
    If you read the whole post, I do mention how incredibly hard it seems growing up in these times. Chances are if I were 14/15 at this time I too would be behaving much as you guys all do.
    The idea behind this thread is to try to get people to look at younger people more holistically instead of going straight to a trend that has got dangerously out of hand.
    I don't want a whole generation of kids growing up saying things like "HOW could you let me change myself when you KNEW it was possibly a phase and now it's affected me for life". Like I say, I don't think it's the compassionate/caring thing to do. It's a trend. Like every generation had. God knows I did. But it was mostly about clothes and what bands you listened to back in the 1980's, not what s** you were born.

  • >>I don't want a whole generation of kids growing up saying things like "HOW could you let me change myself when you KNEW it was possibly a phase and now it's affected me for life".

    Very noble, but how do you propose to do that? For one thing, you have no influence over every single person under 25. Nobody does. For another, if you want to experience a combination of End Times, Armageddon, and Friday afternoon at the DMV, say the 'N' word (= "NO") to a young person's face. Go ahead. BOOM! Bring on the shrieking, screaming, slamming of doors, "You're ruining my life!!!!!", sneaking around behind your back anyway, accusations of "abuse" and/or "neglect", etc. etc. etc.

    So. Which one's it gonna be? Daring to take a stand and telling these confused yet entitled young people to hold off on what they will swear up and down is their "dream" and "who they really are, honest"? Or will you do what too many parents do these days: indulge them and then later on catch the screed quoted at the top of this comment? Either way you're a terrible old person and the young person is a traumatized victim. If you want to play that hopelessly rigged game, go right ahead.

  • I don't think kids should change in 10 years they will be kids during parents for letting them change because it was neglect and they didn't think through what would happen. I'm not trying to play victim when I say I fear school. I've been pulled out because I can't focus on paranoid my school is threatened by other kids there because of bullying. My whole gen. is fuckked and half of it doesn't make sense to me. I think a lot of y'all read my comment wrong because I agree with all the comments I think I just came across wrong

  • >I typed fast ignore the spelling

  • I can type 85 words a minute. I make mistakes and typos, but I do this crazy thing called checking before I click Post or Send. I learned to do it *without* autocorrect, too. No more excuses for you.

  • Sorry I sent it before reading over it. I'll try and remember to do that. I've been super stressed this week my mom's been in and out of the hospital ,not a excuse for poor grammar, I've been stressed and things slip my mind. Humans make mistakes

  • I'm so stressed. There's a virus rampaging around my country that no one under 25 cares about and I don't know how I'll be able to pay the bills in six months and my spouse might have cancer, humans do make mistakes but adults own them. Clap back with some more thinly veiled victimhood, please

  • I did own it.and I'm 14 and mother is f****** on the verge of death I think I can be allowed to be stressed. I care abt the viruse I've left my house a few times and I wear a mask when I'm out wash everything when it comes inside the house

  • ^There's the thiny veiled victimhood, right on schedule ^
    LOL, keep dancing little puppet

  • Anything I say y'all will twist it to make me a spoiled b****

  • Look at your comments. That is where you are "made" into a spoiled b****. Either own it or stfu, dumba$$

  • Fvcking oxygen thief

  • Yeah I know exactly what you mean. That's why I was upset enough to start this post. Sick of getting yelled at for " miss gendering" a 14 yr old. Not "noble " at all. Just trying to be a bit reasonable. But f*** it's hard to impossibly.

  • Aw mate, reason has nothing whatsoever to do with anything socially these days. " 'Social' " media is anything but. We're able to communicate with people all over the world, like I'm doing with you right now, but most people use this amazing ability for attention grabbing. Everyone is demanding attention, but refusing to LISTEN. And none of this is going away until they learn.

  • You think the rest of the world doesn't know about shootings and panic attacks? And you did not even begin to answer the question, so your long-winded response was just an excuse to see yourselves as special somehow YET AGAIN. Your brains are not yet developed.

  • But kids in my gen and age gap face a more likely chance of being in a active shooting

  • So now it is everyone else's fault that Americans are obsessed with guns?

  • No I'm anti gun never said it was any one else's fault

  • But everyone else faces a more likely chance of catching Covid. The fact that the US is so far behind the rest of the world in reopening is because you don't care about anyone besides yourselves. Next lame argument, please :)

  • I don't care abt anyone but myself im sacrificing my friendships bc my bsf parents won't let them hang with me bc I wear a mask and they don't want them around left wing, my 8th grade year which I know sounds stupid but I've been through s*** past two years and I was really looking forward to a year with no drama, my job and all the money im trying to save because if I go to work I can't be around my grandparents who both have cancer and one has dementia, I know this all sounds stupid but I'm 14 it boils down to in a kid we are going to follow trends and blow things up in our head. We have different opinions ,and who knows in 4 years I'll look at this and call myself a dumb ass, we change as people and that's really what this was started abt kids changing their minds except mine isn't as big and being trans which I still don't think should be allowed for kids at least 18 or older, really it should be when your brain is developed but that won't happen so we need to settle on something reasonable. I'm sorry who I offended with my comment but I stand by my opinion that's what's great about freedom of speech we could have this discussion and still disagree we are entitled to our opinion.

  • "You have to treat us special because we're soooo stressed by school shooters that we can't even proofread."

    "We don't care about other people catching this virus. Our generation will be fine, it's everyone older than us who has to watch out."

    Those are not direct quotes as you can see, but they do sum up what you have said pretty neatly. That is why no one gives two $hit$ about your whiny stupid little a$$, you sociopath. I'll bet you think you "love everybody", don't you? Clearly that is just more delusion, as your own words show. You can't trust your brain at that age, as you yourself have shown multiple times. So shut up or you'll get more of what you deserve.

  • Your first few words said it all..." I don't care about anyone but me" typical younger generation whine, whine, whine, try going through a world war and see 100's of your friends, your own brother or dad die beside you , do you hear them whine, people are dying everyday for YOUR freedom and all you can do is whine

  • Totally agree

  • Thanks! I'm almost 50 and I remember doing exactly the same thing - desperate to either fit in or stand out in some way. But it didn't generally alter my body for life. There's already an avalanche of de-transitioning and it's going to get bigger I think.

  • I have no sympathy for them. They wouldn't listen and kicked and screamed until other people paid for their "transitioning" and then they changed their minds. It's just one big ugly splash of unnecessary drama after another, and I'm already sick of it. Stupid people.

  • The only option for us, older people, is now to join their trends as far as possible. Most are now look for good f**** - ethics set aside. So find those consensual ones and f*** them. I in my 60s and f***** about 30 girls aged as low as 13 to older mature ones above 40 yrs, both within the family and outside, white, black. Enjoy as long as you live now.

  • No thanks. Some of us are mentally and emotionally mature as well as physically, and we prefer more age-appropriate playmates who know what they're doing.

  • 13 is best though

  • I hate trans. They are destroying children. For Real For Real

  • Man I dont hate trans at all. It's not about that. It's about how a social trend has taken over in a lot of ways and is causing many problems that are going to get worse in the coming years. The amount of people claiming they are trans vs the amount that actually are I think is massively out of balance and is ignoring more real issues of isolation and loneliness and depression, that's all.

  • Political correctness is what is causing all the problems in this country

  • Yep, and both sides do it. Oh, your side doesn't? Okay then-- Happy Holidays, Goddess bless, and Trump's empty head would make a perfect jack o' lantern! ;)

  • If only.....we couldn't be that lucky

  • It's the fusion of victim culture and "it's all about me" culture. Of course they'll try to blame older people, the media, everybody except themselves. Always.

  • Yes! Yes! Yes! What this guy says!!

  • God, right there with you!! While it's great that this kind of thing is talked about more openly, OF COURSE it couldn't be handled maturely. No, it just HAS to go RIGHT off the rails and become just as problematic as the issue it was intended to solve. And if you dare say so, you're a "bigot" or "homophobic" or a "hater".

    Objectivity has been replaced by how everything makes a person *feel.* Water is not wet if that makes you feel sad. Air is not breathable if it "triggers" you. If someone disagrees with you in ANY way, shape, or form, you have "traumatized" them for life and must be ground under the wheels of cancel culture.

    Yeah, we're really moving forward with this "get along with other members of your own species" thing. *rolleyes*

  • Wow!!! How pathetic you are.

  • What was pathetic about that? Describe.

  • Wow!!! Guess they were more mouth than brains. How surprising. Wow!!!

  • Society has disempowered parents and kids. You cant beat them for misbehaviour. The old norms of a housewife are gone. Its all mixed up.

  • There IS a happy medium between "50s housewife" and "I'm whatever gender I want because that's how I feeeeeeeeel".

    FIND IT.

  • Humanity is not capable of that.

  • The world is overpopulated.

  • Too many mexicans

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