Desire variety
I’m a 50 year old male. Been married for 29 years and married the woman I lost my virginity to when I was 20.
I never had ** with anyone else, but for the last couple of years I have found other women attractive. I am attracted to women of different races or hair color than my wife.
I really want to eat out a woman with a red bush. I also want to eat a woman with a blonde bush. I haven’t seen either but that seems so exotic compared to my wife’s brunette hair and dark bush.
But what I really desire is a black woman. One with a really dark complexion. I want to eat her out and see that dark skin and that pretty pink **. I want to see her engulf my white **.
I want my wife to walk in and find us. I really want a black beauty.
My wife is black, so you want to swap?
Was your wife also a virgin? If so, she might be interested in seeing what ** would be like with another man and you could find a couple where you are attracted to the wife and she is attracted to the husband. If she wasn't a virgin, you might get her to allow you to have ** with as many women as she did men before you.
Ask her about her wildest fantasies and tell her about yours (but focus on making her feel loved and ** and let her know you would absolutely only want to go ahead with it if she was 100% keen and was in the room). If she seems receptive, perhaps you could suggest getting a ** worker involved as the third party. That's safest because they'll be professional about it and you won't be able to keep in touch or make your wife think you'll run off with her. Also, when it comes to doing the act if you ever get that far, make your wife feel **! Focus on her a lot. Show her she's got no reason to be afraid and that it changes nothing. make it an experience about the two of you and not just about yourself.
Tell your wife about your desires. Maybe she will be open to it! Life is too short not to have fun!