Friends w benefits
There's this guy that i sat next to in one of my classes last year. the entire time he was pretty much hitting on me. we'd joke around and played a game where one of us would put our hands on the other's upper thigh and move up (and make sure not to get caught) Well, I got to the point to where his ** would be, and he said that he puts it in the other pant leg... so i moved my hand over.
anyways that was before school ended so now I'm super ** and none of my friends and I really talk anymore, but I'm tempted to text him. I wonder if he would take me up on an offer. I'd want to be fwb though, because to be honest, I wouldn't date him.
so i tried to do it the other day, but I was super awkward, and didn't get to it. it went like this: I asked him if he was seeing anyone, he said no but he was talking with someone, and i said okay. that was pretty much it.
Does anyone have any advice of what I should do? I really want to ** him
I would say try texting him for a short while and see where he's at. See if that old connection is still there. Then, as a point to test his reaction, laugh with him about the "fun times." If he runs with it, then that will tell you if that door is open. To where you can discreetly "throw it out there" to see if he'd be open to taking it a bit further this time. Hope it works out.